Rehearsal dinners have become almost as extravagant as weddings. Traditionally, the rehearsal dinner was held - you guessed it - after the rehearsal the day before a wedding. The dinner guests were typically the same as the participants in the rehearsal, ie. the bridal party and immediate family. Sometimes out of town guests were also invited out of consideration for the distance they had traveled to attend the wedding. With families and friends living farther apart these days, however, it seems like the majority of wedding guests have to travel. The desire to include all of those who have traveled is why the rehearsal dinner is often almost as big as the wedding.
The typical rehearsal dinner is held in a restaurant or club, and can be as elegant as the wedding or more informal. Many couples, though, are planning rehearsal dinners that are creative, fun, and unique. Let your location play a part in your decision. Most areas have great spots that would not only be a fun place for a party, but also give your out of town guests a taste of local flavor.
For instance, if your wedding is near the beach, have a clam bake for your rehearsal dinner. People love casual gatherings on the beach, and this is a really fun and easy theme. The dress code for a clam bake is relaxed, which is nice. But don't just throw on any old thing - after all, the bride should look special at all of her pre-wedding parties. A great look would be a strapless cotton dress in a summery fabric like seersucker. Select accessories that are polished but beach appropriate. Pre wedding jewelry choices could include personalized sterling silver pieces or a starfish motif necklace. This type of jewelry will also be perfect for the honeymoon.
There are many other outdoor sites that would be ideal for a rehearsal dinner. I once attended a super casual cookout in a city park. Another idea is to have a party with a theme, either at your own home or at a rented location. Barbecue is beloved by everyone, and is perfect for a high summer wedding. Think pulled pork, coleslaw, baked beans, and lemonade - yum! Just be sure not to enjoy the food so much that your wedding gown will be tight the next day!
Another great theme for a rehearsal dinner is a Hawaiian luau. Your guests will love trying to hula dance by the tiki torches. Have leis for everyone to wear, and serve fruity cocktails with paper umbrellas. This type of laid back atmosphere is wonderful, because it allows the guests to get to know each other before the wedding, which will make your reception even better. A big floral print is a must for the bride's rehearsal dinner dress for a luau. You will want your accessories to be less formal than your wedding jewelry. A perfect look would be customized shell jewelry, which is unique, affordable, and has a great tropical vibe.
Your imagination is really the only limit to your rehearsal dinner theme. Let your hobbies or pastimes inspire you, and do not be afraid to do something a little goofy if you think that it will be fun. One couple I know outfitted everyone with vintage bowling shirts and held their rehearsal dinner at a bowling alley! Unconventional, yes, but it was perfect for this particular couple. Everyone wants their wedding to be unique and express their personality; having a fun rehearsal dinner is a great way to do that.
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