Saturday, July 20, 2013

Wedding Invitation Wording For Brides


Many brides have never been married before, and planning a wedding for them can be stressful and overwhelming. Especially when it comes to the pressures of writing their wedding invitations. Whether it's traditional wording or a more fun and modern feel, I have written a few examples brides can use to help them along the way.

"Two lives, two hearts joined together in friendship united forever in love It is with joy that we invite you to share in a celebration of love as we exchange our marriage vows on:"

"Because you have shared in our lives by your friendship and love, we invite you to share the beginning of our new life together when we exchange marriage vows on:

You work, you play and then, one day... love just happens! We invite you to be a witness to one of life's loveliest surprises as we are joined together in matrimony on:"

"The pleasure of your company is requested at the marriage uniting Tabitha Newton and Nicolas Hamilton on:"

"It is with great honor that we invite you to share this joyous celebration of love with us as we exchange marriage vows on:"

"Please celebrate with us the freshness of new life and new love as we exchange wedding vows on:"

"Together with our parents, we request the honor of your presence at our marriage on:"

"We invite you to be with us as we begin our new life together on:"

"We joyfully invite you to share in our happiness as we unite in marriage on:"

"Something borrowed and something blue; some things are old, some things are new; someone to care and share your life; the dream of every husband and wife. Please join us as we unite in marriage on:"

"In the spirit of the season we have found the perfect reason to gather friends and family... We request the honor of your presence in our marriage on:"

"We request the honor of your presence in our marriage, as we begin a life of dreaming, loving and sharing together on:"

"We would be honored and happy if you would share in the joy of our union in marriage on:"

"We invite you to be with us as we celebrate our new life together by exchanging marriage vows on:"

"We invite you to share with us a celebration of our love as we exchange marriage vows on:"

"We would be honored and happy if you would share in the joy of our union in marriage as we exchange our vows on:"

"Please celebrate with us in the freshness of new life and new love as we exchange wedding vows on:"

"With joyful hearts we request your presence to celebrate in our exchange of marriage vows on:"

"We invite you to share in our marriage, celebration of love, devotion, and family as we exchange wedding vows on:"

"It is with great joy that we, together with our parents invite you to share in the joy as we exchange marriage vows to begin our new life together on:"

"We would be honored and happy for you to share in the joy of our union in marriage on:"

"Because you have shared in our lives your friendship and love, we invite you to celebrate with us as we exchange marriage vows on:"

These are only some of many examples that can be written. Of course fit your invitation to your personality and color theme of your wedding. to give guests an idea of what to expect when they arrive.

If you're having a destination wedding feel free to get a little more creative and non-traditional. such as sending guest boarding pass invitations or passport invitations, wording and info in these invitations is limitless so feel free to be creative.

More information and wording can be found on our website http://www.empireinvites.ca

Six Places Not to Use Cell Phones


We can't go anywhere in modern society without hearing someone talking on their cell phone, quite often at deafening levels. Here are a few places that cell phones are not welcome...at all!

Movies: If you think there are people who get upset over phone conversations in church, just get chatty in a movie theater. Those people have paid upwards of $10 for their tickets and don't want to hear someone commiserating with their sister over yet another break-up or a detailed discussion on the topic of Grandpa's kidneys. If the conversation lasts very long at all, the hostile glares will turn to verbal abuse in no time. Once again, these people have been instructed to turn the pagers and cell phones off, but they are clearly too important to be incommunicado for two entire hours!

Plays and other live entertainment: The people attending a play or orchestral concert have spent a great deal more than $10 for their tickets. This being a more refined crowd, they will more than likely refrain from the aforementioned verbal abuse. They'll just notify the usher and the offending party will be escorted from the theater. That sounds like fun. "Sir/Madam, will you come with me, please?"

Weddings: Here's an important one. There is one person at any wedding who will gladly and happily wring someone's neck if they begin a conversation on her special day. You guessed it, the bride. She has spent the last six to eight months of her life planning every aspect of her wedding down to the last detail. All eyes are to be on her as she makes her entrance, floating along on the arm of her shell-shocked father. If one's phone should choose that moment (or any of the following emotionally charged moments) to ring out with R-E-S-P-E-C-T, we could only hope that the offending phone would be swiftly and summarily deprived of its battery. However, if that someone has the temerity to answer the call, it matters not that they paid for the bridal couple's wedding trip to Arruba, they are instantly persona non grata.

Funerals: If a wedding is a bad place to have a cell phone chat, a funeral is off the chart. In fact, it's unthinkable to even bring your cell phone in. What if something went wrong with the "silence" feature? Unless it's somehow a call from beyond the grave, there is never an appropriate time to actually answer a cell phone call at a memorial service or funeral. Surely that's so obvious it's not necessary to comment on it, but there are some amazingly insensitive people. It's not beyond the realm of possibility that someone would think themselves so very important that they simply must be reachable at ALL times. I maintain that, if you're that indispensable, don't go to funerals.

Churches: Most churches, somewhere in their bulletin or preservice announcements, instruct those gathered to turn off their pagers and cell phones. Why is it that there are always a few people in the congregation that don't think that applies to them? And it's always the person with the jazziest ring; La Cucaracha, Macho Man, that Nanny-Nanny-Boo-Boo sound or, for the Beatles lover among us, Yellow Submarine. I once heard of a minister who stopped the sermon when he heard a cell phone ring and waited until the person's conversation was finished to resume. I'm guessing he wasn't interrupted too often.

Hospitals: Although you see cell phone usage any time you enter a hospital, hospital personnel really do ask you to refrain. It can interfere with some their high tech equipment. If your sainted mother were having arthroscopic surgery, you certainly wouldn't want some knucklehead's cell phone to scramble the signals, bringing in Scooby Doo on the TV-type monitors in the operating room. And there's always the possibility that your conversation could be picked up somehow and broadcast over the intercom in the hospital cafeteria.

There are, of course, a number of other places where cell phones and conversations upon them are not at all a good idea. For instance, it's probably bad timing to get in a loud argument with your ex-wife while you're out on a date. It could be taken amiss if you place or receive a business call while your wife is about to give birth. And making lunch plans with a girlfriend could be disconcerting to someone who's down on bended knee, popping the question. You get the idea. Cell phones are a wonderful tool and can be real life savers in certain circumstances. But there is a time and place for everything and the places listed above are NOT places where cell phones should be used. If you're interested in winning friends and influencing people, learn to turn it off!

Wedding Insurance Nightmares - Illness Can Be a Real Swine


Wedding insurance can often be viewed as being the way a pessimist approaches the planning of a wedding. Many brides have a rosy image in their heads of their dream wedding, but too often dreams can become nightmares, and the reality is that wedding insurance is not a pessimistic way of planning a wedding at all - but a realistic way.

After all, having wedding insurance in place isn't going to make the occurrence of some major calamity any more likely - it just means that should the unforeseen happen, then you needn't leap into the role of a barnyard fowl minus its top storey.

One of the current concerns many people have is of an infection or illness such as Swine Flu. With the Department for Health recently estimating as many as 181,000 new cases last week alone, the statistics weigh heavily in favour of a proportion of weddings becoming affected in the coming weeks and months.

None of us can be certain of our health, and especially not when a wedding may be planned months in advance. From swine flu to food poisoning, wedding insurance is essential in order to make sure that if the worst does happen and either the bride, the groom, or one of the principal guests contracts a serious or infectious illness, then you'll be covered.

Losing several days to sitting in a bathroom feeling wretched is bad enough - losing thousands of pounds due to a postponed or canceled wedding is likely to make anyone feel ill.

Of course, it's not just the wedding party's health which could scupper your best laid plans. If any of your suppliers falls ill, will they be able to provide the same service for which you have paid? What would you do if your wedding photographer contracted Swine Flu, or the florist was unable to deliver any arrangements because she had food poisoning?

Although it may feel uncomfortable, it's essential to consider just how fragile a wedding can be. With thousands of pounds, and often much more than a dozen different suppliers of goods or services, and with infections such as Swine Flu now reaching epidemic proportions, taking out adequate wedding insurance has never been more important.

Although one hopes that it will only be other people's weddings that will be affected by outbreaks of illness, and only other people who have to cancel a wedding, the hard fact of the matter is that whilst you can be certain that a number of weddings will definitely be affected, yours is every bit as likely to be one of them.

It's not something you can do much about, and certainly not something you should sit up late at night worrying about for months. As long as you have appropriate wedding insurance you can relax knowing that if Swine Flu or any other form of illness does affect your plans, you'll be protected - at least from financial loss. Sadly there are few policies able to protect you from the illness itself!

Wedding Venue Requirements and How That Affects Your Options for Entertainment


Are you thinking of having a fantastic rock and pop or funk and soul band at your wedding reception? There are a few things you'll need to check before you go ahead with the booking. Most importantly speak to your wedding venue and see what requirements they have that a wedding band must adhere to. It is always best when booking your entertainment to give them all the details that they need to know as soon as possible. This can help save stress on everyone's part.

There's been horror stories in the past where a band shows up to for a wedding and is turned away due to a lack of PAT testing. There's nothing the band can do, nothing the venue can do and nothing the newly married couple can do so here's a check list of things you need to be sure of before agreeing a cover band for your wedding.

PAT testing and Public Liability Insurance

Speak to your wedding venue and see if they need your band to be PAT tested and insured as soon as you book. This isn't always necessary but sometimes is and a venue can turn your band away on the night if they are not. PAT testing means Portable Appliance Testing and tests for safety in portable electrical equipment like guitar amplifiers. It is easy to get done but can take some time to get organised as bands can have a lot of equipment. In one of the first cover bands I played in the venue turned around to the bride three days before the wedding and said make sure your band is PAT tested and insured. I had a two-day race against time to get 3 guitar amps, two speakers, keyboards, lights and multiple extensions, all of which were strewn across the south at various members houses PAT tested and take out Public Liability Insurance. Luckily, I got it sorted but it was a stressful couple of days for me and the bride who thought she wasn't going to have a band. Now I make sure every covers band I play in is completely insured and PAT tested.

Sometimes a wedding venues insurance is null if the band don't have PAT testing or PLI so they have no choice but to turn the band away. It is easily sorted though if there is enough time so make sure you check what your venue needs and tell your band in good time.

Sound Limiters

The bane of a rocky wedding bands existence. Sound limiters cut the power to the band when a limit is reached so if there's a particularly loud section of a song it'll cut all sound. Venues often have no choice whether to put sound limiters up or not. It is usually due to complaints from local residents which the Environmental Health have to deal with and usually results in them slapping a badly set sound limiter into the venue.

More often than not DJ's find it easy to cope with as the music they play is compressed and so doesn't have any loud peaks. A band on the other hand may have a lot of dynamic shifts in their music so it's trickier for them to stay within the confines of the limiter.

Bands can prepare for a limiter by bringing smaller amps, electric drum kits or brushes instead of sticks to keep themselves below the level. It is worth getting your cover band or entertainment agency to talk to your wedding venue during the early stages of booking to make sure they are all happy.

Instrument Restrictions

A few weddings I've organised have asked for the band to have no amps and use electric drum kits due to a venues efforts to minimise sound levels. Some bands are able to supply these but make sure you get the scoop from your venue before you book a band. It really should be the venues job to tell you when you book or mention a band but sometimes they forget.

The band will sound different to how they usually do but a more professional wedding band will have some great gadgets to help them achieve that big sound without their usual set-up.

In summary. If you want a band for your venue please check with venue on these things...


  • Sound limiter - how low does it go?

  • Instrument restrictions - Do the band need an electric drum kit? Do they need to use the venue PA?

  • PAT testing and Public Liability Insurance - Most bands will have these. They run out every year thought so make sure your band knows whether the venue requires it or not.

For help and advice in booking a great wedding band please get in touch with me, Chris, at The Band Boutique - Wedding entertainment for hire.

I have bands who are trained in the art of venue regulation handling.

07912 424554
bandboutique@gmail.com

Sending Wedding Congratulations Messages


Toronto weddings mostly have the services of wedding DJ's and Toronto photographers. A person who wants to send a wedding congratulations message should compose one that is heartfelt. Most people send congratulatory messages in form of writing. A person may do this by writing a love quotation in the card. Depending on the relationship that the person has with the married couple, one may include lighthearted humor. It is necessary for a person to express their thoughts concerning love in the card but at the same time depict how it applies to the couple.

Congratulatory messages are common in most Ontario weddings. A person should note down the happiness that one wishes for the couple as well as future hopes. If one cannot attend the ceremony, one should make an apology on the congratulations card. This will depict sincerity as far as the sender is concerned. One should make a proposal to meet with the couple later on and chat about the ceremonious moment. Mississauga weddings usually include Mississauga photographers who cover the occasion exactly the way the couple wants.

When writing a congratulations card or letter some time before the nuptials, one should kindly inquire if they can be of any assistance in the preparations for the happy occasion. If a person informs the couple early of their absence during the nuptials, asking to assist may be necessary towards chipping into the ceremony. If one sends the congratulatory message after the wedding, one may talk about how wonderful the ceremony was and may mention the bride's glamorous dress too. Wedding congratulations offer emotional support to a couple getting married. Therefore, one should try to make it as presentable and heartfelt as possible.

Not everybody is good at writing congratulatory messages therefore, a person who does not know how to write one should get assistance from the thesaurus program in a computer. It will assist in writing a unique congratulations message that does not have commonly repeated words. The use of rough drafts may help in writing a unique congratulatory message. For most Ontario weddings, the wedding photos remind the couple of their marriage as well as the actual ceremony. If one cannot attend the nuptials, then a gift and a congratulatory message sent in advance to the couple are in order though not compulsory.

It is adequate for a person to send a congratulatory message together with a gift from the couple's wedding registry. If a person lives somewhere near the couple, one may drop off the congratulatory card and gift. Most Toronto nuptials occur in the presence of photographers who take pictures of the couple as well as the guests. The newly wed couple may hire a bridal limousine for transportation purposes. The newly wed couple may also hire the services of a DJ. Many websites may offer fresh ideas to people who have a problem with writing congratulatory messages. One should log on to the various websites in order to obtain this.

Wedding Invitations - How-Tos For Wedding Postage


Whether you made them yourself or ordered them from a professional printer, you've most likely put a lot of time, effort and money into the design of your wedding invitations. It's time to mail them out, but do you know how? Mailing out your wedding invitations is a lot more than just slapping a stamp on them and dropping them in the closest mailbox. Read on for top tips and guidelines to ensure your wedding invitations get to their destination on time and in pristine condition.

Postage

First things first, when you receive your wedding invitations, put together one complete invitation (including all added inserts, tissue paper, invitation jackets, bows, etc.) and take it to your local post office. They will measure and weigh your invitation and let you know exactly how much your postage will be. Both size and weight can affect the amount of postage you need to pay, so if you are trying to save money on postage, consider the amount of embellishments you add to your wedding invitations.

Don't assume your invitation will be the same amount of postage as your gas and electric bill; going into the post office and having it weighed and measured by a postal worker will ensure your wedding invitations don't get returned to you for insufficient postage. If you have a uniquely sized RSVP card, you will want to have that looked at by the post office as well. Irregularly shaped envelopes generally require more postage too.

Wedding Stamps

The post office usually has a selection of wedding themed postage stamps that you can use on your wedding invitations, or you can customize your own. Personalized wedding stamps have become increasingly popular and can be designed and created at a large number of websites. You can personalize them with your wedding colors, your wedding theme, or you can even put a picture of the happy couple on the wedding stamp itself. A personally created wedding stamp is the ultimate final touch in accessorizing your wedding invitations.

Hand Canceling

When you mail a letter at the post office it is processed and filed through machines with all the other letters that get mailed on a daily basis. Most wedding invitations are thicker, larger or different shaped than regular mail however, and run a higher risk of getting stuck or damaged in these machines. You can avoid this risk by having your wedding invitations hand cancelled, which means they will be processed by hand and not put through automated processing machines.

When you are set to mail your wedding invitations, hand deliver them to a postal worker at the post office and ask that they be hand cancelled with a rubber stamp. Not only will this ensure your beautiful invitations don't get caught in any machinery, it will minimize the amount of printing markings and bar codes that get put on the invitation.

Changes in Postage

From time to time the postal service raises the price of stamps. To avoid returned invitations or non-delivered RSVP cards, be sure to check for any changes in postage that will be occurring. You may even have to put a different amount of postage on the return envelope than on your wedding invitation.

If you are unsure of when your guests will be mailing back their RSVP cards, consider Forever stamps for the RSVP envelopes. Forever stamps were developed by the postal service to help consumers ease the transition during price changes. Forever stamps do not have a denomination and will be honored whenever they are used with no need for additional postage for a one-ounce letter mailing.

Follow these simple wedding postage tips, and you can make sure your save-the-date cards, wedding invitations, RSVP cards and thank you notes are all delivered on time and in the condition they were sent in.

Wedding Invitation Wording - What Is The Proper Informal Wedding Invitation Wording?


You are engaged and ready to make those wedding plans. You are getting your list together and ideas for your wedding and reception are coming together. You have decided this will be an informal wedding. So what is the proper informal wedding invitation wording?

Since you have chosen an informal wedding, you can relax on this. Although the formal announcements have specific guidelines the informal in not as defined.

You can put your parents first names on you invitation. Using Susan and Tom Baker is correct. In informal wedding invitations, many times the couples names are first and both sets of parents are listed at the bottom.

An example would be:

We are walking one path and will be united

Vows will be shared and you are invited

Emily Sue Jones

and

Thomas James Smith

together with their parent:

Tammy and Ronald Jones

and

Julia and Howard Smith

Invite you to share in their special day.

On Saturday, the second day of June

twenty-twelve

at four o'clock in the afternoon

at the Fun Fair Grounds

Your town, USA

Reception:

6:30

Sharaton Ballroom

address
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If you put the parents names on the invitation there are some guidelines you can take.The first thing to remember is that first names are used. A married couple will have the woman's name first. This allows the mans name and surname to remain together. If your parents are divorced, your mothers name is first. You can add step parents names if you feel comfortable with it. Many times just and parents can be used and the names omitted.

When using informal wedding invitation wording, you have much more leeway. You can use names, write out dates. This leaves less room for error. You can put the reception information on your invitation also. Having such a relaxed environment allows for more freedom. You must realize that as you make these change you will have a less ordered wedding and reception. For some this is good for others it may pose a problem.

Your wedding invitations are a big part in setting the mood of your big day. You should decide what type of wedding you want when you pick out your wedding invitations. You will also address your invitations less formal. This means that informal wedding invitation wording goes to the envelope addressing also. You will use first names here also. Don't go informal with your invites and then address to Mr. and Mrs. so and so. This will make an undecided idea for your guests. Keep them uniform.

There are many ways you can word your wedding cards. Some will be informal and some will be very formal. Make your decision knowing what the end result will mean for your wedding day.

Friday, July 19, 2013

Wedding Reception Signature Drink: Where to Start


A wedding is a special event that marks the celebration of a joining of two hearts. An enormous amount of time and effort goes into planning the day from the invitations to the favors to the songs. Along the way, inevitably the total cost comes into question and that typically is accompanied by some sort of cutting.

I have a suggestion that can add to the fun, create something special for you and your guests and at the same time save some of the precious money you are seeing fly out the window! My suggestion is to create a signature drink.

Signature drinks have been around for at least a century or more. Having a signature drink at your wedding can add a fun experience and really set off your reception. Many brides and grooms have added this to their celebration and if you are reading this you are probably thinking about having your own signature cocktail. But how do you start and what are the steps?

One place to start is with the theme of your wedding. You can choose a color that coordinates with your dresses or flowers and start there. You can start with a favorite flavor and start to add ingredients. You can take a hint from the flavor or your cake (think raspberry filling) and move in that direction. If you are having a beach wedding an obvious place to start is with flavors common to a beach. If it is a mountain wedding, the same applies.

Another place is with the season. A summer wedding might try lemonade as a starting place. Another idea is to create a frozen slush, perfect for hot summer weddings. The idea is to think outside the box! Fall brings to mind peaches, apples, pears and other fruit. Also, pumpkin, cloves, nutmeg and other spices might be ideas for weddings around the October and November time frame. Mint, candy cane and chocolate might be appropriate around the winter holiday time.

Some couples choose to create a drink around a special experience, their honeymoon plans or a memorable trip they took together. Wherever you start, make sure that you pick something meaningful to your time together as a couple.

The next step is to pick a base spirit. This can be literally anything. Most couples have their favorites and choose among them but be sure that it is not something that your guests will object to. Part of the fun of offering your signature drink to your guests is that you know them and probably know some of their preferences.

At this point, things get interesting. You have several choices including hiring a mixologist, taking an existing drink and modifying it to make it unique to your wedding or starting from scratch and creating one that no one has even thought of before! If you start with a classic cocktail, change one ingredient at a time. Change the spirit, change the base flavor, change the garnish, add a new flavor, make it sweeter or tarter.

Going to a unique flavor or ingredient can also be fun. One bride I heard about started with a puree of avocado! Others might try a spirit that symbolizes their honey moon location, such as cachaca, a classic Brazilian spirit or sake, for an Asian location. Also creating an infusion with your favorite spirit with fruit or spices is another way to make your signature drink special.

No matter what approach you choose, creating a drink involves a lot of trial and error. Experienced mixologists suggest that you have a taste testing party to ensure the flavors are what your guests would enjoy!

Your signature drink should say something about you as a couple or about your tastes, future plans or goals. You need to pick a name. Much like naming a child, this can get tricky and take some time!

A way to create a memorable experience for your guests, serve it in a unique glass; something that is different than the other drinks that you are offering. Another idea is to allow them to keep the glass as a favor. You could add LED lights to the serving vessel. Have it pour through an ice sculpture. Look for ideas on wedding blogs and come up with something that sets your wedding apart!

A few other considerations to keep in mine: Make sure you can make it in sizable quantities easily. Also, if it lends itself to mixing up ahead of time, even better! Make sure you talk about this in detail with your wedding venue. It is likely that you will need to order special ingredients that the venue typically does not have in their bar cabinet! Also, experiment with a non-alcoholic version of it for the younger crowd and those who choose not to have alcohol. Typically this just involves increasing the basic flavors and perhaps sweetener.

Once you have finalized your signature drink, write a story about it to make it personal. Tell about how you choose the ingredients or theme. Tell them about your taste testing and experimenting. Include the recipe so your guests can reproduce it at home.

Finally, a signature drink can save a lot of money. First, if it is your only alcoholic drink you can save the cost of an open bar. If it is simple or if it can be mixed ahead of time, you can save by having a less experienced (think less expensive) bar tender! Also, use the "well" or house spirits to avoid the cost of premium bottles. It is also likely that the venue will be able to offer a signature drink at a less costly price, as it requires less set-up time for the bartender.

If you spend the time and make this a joint effort with your fianc矇 and friends, a signature drink can add a unique touch to your special day!

How To Throw A Superb Baby Shower


The arrival of a baby is an exciting time for a family; as a result, the baby shower should be an unforgettable experience. Like any other party, the hostess or host wants the part to shine and surpass other events. However, some people don't know how to throw a superb and unforgettable occasion. So for those people, this article will provide helpful tips on how you can throw the best baby shower.

Select a Theme

The first step to throwing a baby shower is to select a unique and original theme. All great parties have a theme, think of a prom, wedding, sweet sixteen and so forth. With a theme, you can guide the orientation of your party and determine if it's going to be a formal event or a casual affair. Without a theme, your shower party might seem dull, messy and some things might not coincide with each other. Some great themes include: blue midnight, pink blossom, ladybugs galore, butterfly heaven, gentle touch, a touch of heaven, stork and a sports theme. When trying to select your theme, first see if you're having a boy, girl or if the baby's gender is undetermined. Then, simply select something that goes together with what you want and the baby's gender. For example: if you want a formal event and you're having a girl, then the perfect theme is a princess ball.

Location, Location, Location

The location is a crucial part of the baby shower because if you don't have a location, you won't have a place to throw a baby shower. If you want to throw an unforgettable celebration, then you need to think of a spectacular scene. Perhaps you can throw the event on the beach under a cabana or maybe a hotel ballroom? Remember, you can select any location that you deem fit.

D矇cor and Entertainment

The key to throwing the best baby shower is to have the best decorations and entertainment. You might have the best theme in the world and a gorgeous location, but if you don't add decorations and entertainment, your gathering might seem dull, plain and lifeless. The d矇cor of your party should include tableware, tables and chairs, streamers, balloons, perhaps an ice sculpture, a dessert table and a theme oriented centerpiece in each table. Make sure to select decorations that go with the theme. For example: if your theme is ladybugs, then putting puppy or princess napkins won't do. If money is no option, you can hire a DJ, Acrobatic act or even a live performer.

Food and Refreshments

Another important aspect of throwing the perfect baby shower is the food. Make sure to hire a reliable, state approved catering company that offers a wide variety of foods, so each guest can find a dish that they like. Making sure that there is a wide variety of foods is very important because if you provide a limited selection, the chances are that some guests won't have a good time. Also, make sure to provide drinks for your guests.

Invitations

You need to have people attend your event if you're planning to throw a baby shower. With thousands of different designs and types of invitations available on the market you will certainly find the perfect one for your event. The key here is to dedicate a few hours to go over the choices. The more you look through the better chances you have of finding the perfect one.

Throwing a baby shower should be a fun occasion for everyone from the guests to the parents. However, throwing the even might seem complicated, but hopefully with the help of this article, your baby shower will be an unforgettable and joyous experience.

Married Couple Date Night! Helpful for LDS Brides and Grooms As Well As Non-LDS Brides and Grooms


Spouse Date Night - Ideas for Dating After Marriage

A Helpful Guide for both LDS Brides and Grooms, as well as Non LDS Brides and Grooms

You're married... now what? That is a funny question. In all the excitement of being engaged
and planning your wedding, you probably didn't give much thought to how your daily post-wedding life was going to be.

One thing that will make a lot of difference in your closeness as a married couple, especially the longer you've been married, is continuing to "date" each other.

Importance of Spouse Date Night

Elder Russell M. Nelson pointed out that "couples need private time to observe, to talk, and really listen to each other." Regular date night for couple's is a very important and helpful way for husbands and wives to continue building their relationship through shared experiences and pursuing common interests together.

The Three Keys to being consistent about regular date night are:
1. Making date night a priority. Many couples set a regular night, usually Friday or Saturday, as their "date night." Nothing else is allowed on that evening, which is reserved for date night only!
2. Planning ahead. If date night rolls around but you haven't planned a date, then you'll likely end up doing something boring. And if your date nights are consistently boring, they'll quickly disappear.
3. Brainstorming a list of affordable dates. Between school, starting a family, and other expenses you may not have extra cash for extravagant date nights. Remember that good dates don't have to cost a lot (or anything at all.)

Married LDS Date Night Ideas

Whether you've got money to spend or you're broke, whether you are outdoorsy or artsy, or whether you're free to stay out late or homebound with young children, there are plenty of date ideas that will work for you and your spouse.

Outdoor Activities
Go for a walk or hike
Rent a tandem bike
Go rollerblading
Play basketball or a game of 'horse'
Go camping
Play tennis or racquetball
Go rock climbing
Learn how to canoe or kayak
Go fishing
Garden or plant a tree
Go horseback riding
Play croquet
Go ice skating, cross country skiing, or sledding
Have a snowball fight
Go sightseeing
Wash the car
Go Geo caching with your GPS
Fly a kite
Go to the beach or pool
Play mini golf

Places to Go
• Attend the circus
• Go to a water park or amusement park
• Visit a local arboretum or rose garden
• Browse in a bookstore(or to the library)
• Go garage "sale-ing" or to an antique auction
• Visit the batting cages or driving range
• Go to the cannery
• Go to the LDS Temple
• Browse around in IKEA and have some Swedish meatballs
• Volunteer at a local shelter, school, or library
• Go for a drive through the country
• Visit a local U-Pick orchard for apples, blueberries, or raspberries
• Go bowling
• Visit a flea market, thrift store, or antique shop
• Go window shopping
• Go out for breakfast (instead of dinner)
• Meet each other for lunch in the middle of a busy day
• Visit a zoo or aquarium
• Go to a local festival or parade
• Go to a family-friendly comedy club
• Take a dinner cruise
• Check out houses on the Parade of Homes
• Attend a sporting event (minor league or high school games are cheaper)
• Visit a museum or art gallery (college campus museums are usually free)
• Play laser tag or paintball
• Take a dance class
• Browse at a furniture store, try out all the sofas and chairs
• Go to a local high school or community theater play or concert
• Attend a dance or music recital on a nearby college campus
• Go out for dessert; order something and split it
• Get a hotel room, swim in the pool, and enjoy the continental breakfast
• Stay at a bed and breakfast

At-Home Dates

• Learn to cook something new together
• Do yoga, Pilates, aerobics, or stretching together
• Watch a TV show together on a blow-up mattress or futon in your living room
• Read the same book over a month, then discuss it in a spouse "book club"
• Read and discuss a chapter in the scriptures or an article in the Ensign
• Watch a favorite Disney movie from when you were a kid
• Go to a drive-in movie theater
• Learn to make and paint pottery
• Find a food storage recipe and try it out
• Go rake a neighbor's leaves or shovel their driveway
• Rent a Redbox movie (or a free one from the library) and pop popcorn
• Make homemade ice cream
• Work on family history
• Work on writing up a will together
• Bake a treat and deliver it to the neighbors
• Play a Scrabble tournament
• Trade back rubs
• Take a bubble bath or shower together
• Invite another couple over to play Scene It
• Have a picnic on a blanket on your living room floor or in the backyard
• Make S'mores in a fire pit, your fireplace, or the microwave
• Go camping in your backyard a cook with your Dutch oven
• Plan a vacation you'd like to take someday

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The Difference Between Wedding Announcements and Wedding Invitations


Wedding Announcements and Wedding Invitations serve different purposes and some thought needs to go into determining who receives which. There is much to do when planning a wedding and here are some helpful pointers to use when deciding who to include on each of your mailing lists.

Wedding Invitations are sent to friends and family members you would like to invite to attend the actual wedding ceremony. When planning your ceremony, it is a good idea to initially determine a list of those friends, family members and business associates you would like at the ceremony itself. Do remember to include the wedding party as well in your head count. This number will help you in determining the venue for your ceremony. Maybe the chapel is a better choice than the huge main sanctuary, for example, if you are planning a church wedding. Or, maybe the main ballroom is not necessary if a smaller room will do.

When placing the order for your wedding invitations, remember to add a few extra for unexpected additions to your list or in case you incorrectly address a few.

Wedding Announcements are sent to notify friends and family of your marriage if they did not receive wedding invitations. Announcements do not include details of the ceremony itself and are usually mailed on the day of the event. They are used for announcing your wedding to those you may not know well enough to invite to the ceremony or who may live too far away to attend. They are great for business associates or to let recipients know of your name change. They can also be sent to announce a wedding if you have eloped or if only a very small group was included in a destination wedding.

Just as formal as wedding invitations, wedding announcements let those important to you know that you have made it official and are usually ordered at the same time as your wedding invitations, and are printed in like style. As with wedding invitations, order a few extra just in case.

Wedding Reception Invitations offer a third alternative for celebrating your wedding and often call for separate forms of notification. Reception cards are most widely used to invite attendees and share details of the reception and are included in the wedding invitation. Normally all guests invited to the ceremony are also invited to the following reception. However, for more intimate ceremonies, it is possible that a larger group is invited to the reception separately. For this, a formal wedding reception invitation is appropriate. These too are printed and ordered at the same time as the invitations and announcements.

Regardless of whether someone is on your wedding invitation, wedding announcement or wedding reception list, be sure you keep all three lists up to date. Avoid embarrassment by forgetting to include someone or by sending them the wrong invitation. And, keep several of each on hand for memory books.

So You Are Thinking of Working Abroad? Top 10 Things That You Should Do Before You Go


Working abroad is something a lot of people dream of maybe because of the promise of improved living conditions. If you want to work abroad, there are a lot of considerations like the cost of living, medical healthcare benefits, annual multi-trip insurance benefits for British expats, safety and security of the country, the culture, the people, and the current economy, among others.

There are also a few things to do to prepare to live and work overseas. Start reading the top 10 things that you should do before you can comfortably work abroad.

1. Working abroad means communicating with people with a different language as yours. Make sure that you study the country's native language so you can break the language barrier.

2. British expats have to learn the other country's culture. Learn to adapt and learn even the simplest things so you don't offend the locals. You have to learn their local customs, know more about their native dishes, and how to socialize with them so you don't have a hard time integrating yourself into the new environment.

3. You are not allowed to work abroad without securing a working visa so this is one of the first things that you should process.

4. If you are going to work abroad you have to learn the business etiquette of the country you intend to work in and you have to realize that intentional business etiquettes differ for every country. The internet is a good source for pertinent information so make a thorough research first.

5. Finding a comfortable place to live in is the key to being able to settle in the new country immediately. It could be a good idea to ship some of your personal items to help you get used to living in the new place.

6. Find out the country's policies on taxes so you don't get into trouble into trouble once you start getting your income.

7. Find out the benefits you stand to get from the company you are going to work for - find out if there are benefits like annual-multi trip insurance, medical healthcare policies for British expats, and other benefits for foreigners. In case you are given the opportunity by your current company to work in a sister company abroad, make sure that you are aware of the employee benefits for taking overseas assignments.

8. If you are being sent by your company to work abroad, is it a part of a career growth or you are just being reassigned? Make sure that you are well ware of the conditions.

9. Make sure also that you are aware of the medical facilities that you can avail of should you need medical attention.

10. Lastly, make it clear with your employer that you are merely working abroad and that you intend to go home after the contract so there are plans and arrangements in place to get you home and that there is a job waiting for you when you get home.

Creative Wedding Invitation Ideas - Add Some Creativity To Your Wedding Invitations


Wedding invitations are one of things couples begin to think about as they plan their wedding. Here are some creative invitation ideas that can add some flair and creativity to your wedding.

Using technology for your invitations is a good creative idea. For instance, you can use technology to create CDs with pictures of you and your special someone. Then, simply insert a title page in the CD case with the wedding information. A similar idea is to put your favorite love songs on the CD. You can also add the music to a slideshow of your pictures. Some couples totally get away from traditional invitations by emailing their invitations. With this method, you can also share pictures and music. As an added bonus, it will be easy for your guests to reply.

If you want to go the more traditional route but still have a touch of creativity, you can add pressed and dried flowers into your wedding invitations. With this idea, you could have flowers pressed that will be echoed in some of the later bouquets or arrangements at your wedding so your guests can have a preview of your wedding style.

Many of today's brides take a cue from the popular hobby of scrapbooking when trying to come up with a new and original wedding invitation idea. By using the same principles of scrapbooking (minus the cheesy stickers), you can layer patterned and textured papers under the text of your invitation for a personalized invitation that will be 100 percent unique for your wedding.

Altering pictures through photo-editing software can get you a professional look for photos that you want to include on your invitation and will allow for a beautiful style to come across with your own creative flair. You could also include items related to nature or even a type of chain to symbolize the binding of two lives that occurs within the marriage ceremony. Thinking about items and ideas that matter to you and your fiancé and incorporating them into the invitations is the key to coming up with the perfect creative wedding invitations.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

What to Do If Your Bridal Shop Closes


It is an unfortunate fact of life that sometimes businesses will go out of business. When it is your favorite coffee shop or newsstand, it is a disappointment. When the shop that closes is the bridal shop from which you ordered your wedding gown, it can be a crisis.

It is often said that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. This is especially true when you are planning your wedding. Your bridal gown is one of the most important parts of your wedding, so before you go shopping, it pays to ask for recommendations from other brides and your wedding vendors.

If you are using a wedding planner, she can be a particularly good resource, because she is likely to have all of the latest gossip about which stores may be teetering on the edge of solvency. A big red flag is a store that has to pay for all of its' deliveries c.o.d., because it indicates that they have a track record of not paying their vendors (the exception is with new accounts; many gown designers will not offer terms until they have worked with a store for up to a year). The concern is that the store may not have the cash on hand to receive your order when it arrives.

The way that things are usually done at a bridal store is that you leave them a deposit to order your gown (normally 40-60%), and then pay the balance when the gown arrives from the designer. This is done for the shop's protection, to ensure that brides are serious about their order, and so that the store will have at least covered their cost if a dress is not picked up for some reason.

There are a few ways that a bride can protect herself when she is ordering a dress. First of all, get a contract in writing, and be sure that it lists your down payment. Many credit cards offer some sort of consumer protections, as well, so if yours does, use that for your deposit instead of writing a check. This way, in the unlikely event that the store does go out of business, you will have a better chance of recovering your deposit.

When bridal shops do close, it can be very difficult to track down the owners. If your gown has already been received at the shop, you are in a better position than if it is still on order. At least all you have to do is find someone to let you in so that you can pick up your dress. Many bridal shops will allow brides to leave their accessories at the store with their gown as a convenience; normally this is just fine. If you have anything irreplaceable, such as a piece of bridal jewelry that was handcrafted just for you, then it is safer to keep it in your possession (some stores will prefer that you only leave things like shoes and veils anyway, keeping your handcrafted bridal jewelry at your home).

For brides who are in the very unfortunate position of having a bridal shop close before their gown arrives, your best bet is to go straight to the vendor (this is one reason that you want to have a detailed contract). Let them know the situation, and find out if a) your gown was in fact ordered, b)if it is ready, and c) how you can get it.

A designer will rarely ship directly to a client, but they might be willing to send your gown to another nearby bridal shop. The only problem is that you if you were not able to recover your original deposit, you may very well still end up having to pay the full price for the dress to the second shop. If you are buying a very expensive designer gown, it might be a good idea to have wedding insurance, to ensure that you would be able to get your money back.

It is rare that a bridal shop suddenly closes, but it can happen. To try to make the best of a bad situation, do all that you can to put yourself in a good position beforehand. Hopefully, you will never need this advice, but if you do, at least you will be prepared.

What Is a Payslip?


A payslip is a small document, mainly a slip of paper, which contains records of an employee's wage or salary, including details of insurance paid, tax paid, pension contribution and other charges.

A payslip is issued by employers to all the employees in every organization. Every employee of any organization has the right to a payslip. It is issued to an employee at the end of every month or the agreed time of payment between an employee and employer.

It is mainly prepared at the accounts department by the employee who prepares the payroll - mostly the accountant, and later distributed to all the employees of an organization, either using email or as a hard copy.
Indicated in the payslip is,

- The total monthly pay with no deductions taken i.e. the gross pay
- The income tax - which is the amount of money paid by the employee to the Inland Revenue. This amount is based on the employee's total income
- The National Insurance Contribution, which is a contribution made by employees to a Government Insurance Organization, to cover for the employee's unemployment and illness. This amount also depends on an employee's total income
- The pension scheme contributions which is the amount paid to the pension scheme provider, to boost an employee's income upon retirement
- The net pay which is the total amount of money an employee takes home after all the deductions are made.
- The name and address of the employee.
- The period for which the payment is being made.

The importance of having a payslip is that it is a record document that may be used in future as reference, especially when seeking new jobs, as most employers seek an employee's payslip for the previous organization they were employed in, mainly as a verification that the employee was actually employed in the organization he claims. It may also used in banks when obtaining loans. The bank calculates the amount of money they will loan you, according to the figures on your payslip.

Wedding Cake Trivia and Finding That Special Cake


Finding that special cake for your special day or your wedding sounds fun, right? Tasting all those yummy confectionery treats and yes, it can be done, but don't over due it all in one day or you will have destroyed your taste-buds and gotten sick of cake even before your big day. Plus, if you do too many taste testings all in one day, all the cakes taste will run into each other and you won't be able to tell which cake was your favorite. That is not unless you have taken extensive notes. Taste testing cakes should be done much like the tasting of good wine. You must rinse your palette between each flavor or you are not giving the new flavor its full due.

Once you know your menu and how many guests are attending, if it is not just a dessert reception, you will want to have a cake that compliments your meal rather than acting against its in taste. Nothing can ruin a great reception quicker than having a strange taste from the dessert after a fabulous meal. You want your guests to leave thinking that not only did they get the best meal, (but where did you find that great cake maker?) (also known as a baker), as well. Also, you don't want to add all that sugar to your system in one day for another reason, your hips. You'll still want to be able to get into your dress or suit after all of those tastings.

I suggest you take a pad and writing utensil, so you can take notes. Sometimes that is unnecessary because you'll run into or taste a cake you absolutely hate, but I'd even make note of that, in case someone you know has recommended that baker or that particular flavor. You will want to remember why you didn't choose the cake or baker and have a definitive reason for not going with it or the baker. I know it all sounds strange even impossible. It is true that our tastes change suddenly even from childhood to a couple of years and definitely after 10 - 15 years, in terms of what we like or don't like. Take notes, it will save the day and your taste memory.

There will be descriptions of taste flavorings that sound so delectable that when you taste it, you still may not believe how horrible it tastes, or even vice versa. Try all that you can until you find your favorite. Take water or seltzer to clear your palette after each tasting, so that your next taste of a different flavor will not have the lingering taste of the previous confection. Finding your favorite will be almost instantaneous sometimes and other times it is a long expedition into the cake world of taste and textures of cake and frosting.

When you find the one, that you believe you want. Wait a day or two and go back and taste it again. If you have your meal planned out already and it is something that you can marginally duplicate, do that, eat it and then go to the baker and try the cake again. Or if you liked it on the spot, see if you can take a slice or two home to try it again, with "the" meal or something similar, so you can see if it will work. If it doesn't work, you are on your search again, unless you want to change something in your meal. Or just have a dessert reception.

Just like there are wedding dress trends there are also wedding cake trends. When I got married, I knew that I wanted my cake to be on three different pedestals arranged askew, not in a row or on top of each other, I was bucking the 2005 wedding cake trend. Back then most of the cakes looked like round hats stacked on top of each other, complete with the bow. Color was just starting to get adventurous, back then. Also I knew after tasting several cakes randomly, that I wanted double chocolate/carob and my friend's specialty butterscotch rum in the middle. I also, love fondant, so I knew that I wanted that as my frosting. Although I didn't buck traditional altogether since my cakes were white with purple ribbon at the bottom of each layer with flowers to compliment my dress. Because of my allergy to milk, I knew that the top had to be a white cake and hopefully something that would keep for a year, or so I thought.

For the year 2011/2012, when I say wedding cake trends, I am not talking about the color. I think most wedding couples will go with either the color shadings of their theme color or maybe this year go with the colors from the United Kingdom's Royal wedding colors: Silver and blue. Traditionally until the 19th century all wedding cakes were white, even the decoration on it. White, to denote purity, much like the dress. No, when I say trends I am talking about the design and or set up of the cake once it is on the table. Of late, there have been a lot of boxes, some askew, others in rigidly shaped edged box shapes and traditional cakes, but seemingly all stacked somehow one on top of the other. Held together presumably with straws or poles and a prayer, especially when transporting from bakery to venue.

Fruit cakes, fillings are out, even though the United Kingdom's Royal wedding went with a traditional fruit cake, which most Americans shun religiously at Christmas, so would NEVER be included or thought perfect for a wedding cake to be shared with your new relatives, friends, or even your spouse. Prior to the tradition in the United Kingdom of sweet or fruity cakes, in Medieval times the cake was usually made of a plain unsweetened bread. Actually probably a truer metaphor for what the bride was getting into than anything since. The bread was usually eaten first by the groom, who then broke it over the bride's head showing his dominance over her (presumably throughout the rest of their married life.) I can see why that is not practiced anymore.

The added sweetness, fruits, minced cakes are from the "Bride's Pie" which became the norm in 19th century England. Sometimes that pie was even made from mutton, especially if the family was not of the elite or royal lineage, with wealth to have the sweet meats. By the late 19th century, the bride's pie was out and single tiered plum cakes were the norm or trend of the day. It was not until much later when guest lists expanded that cake or wedding cake, earlier called the "Bride's Cake", that layering started to become trendy. Initially the layers were just mock-ups, much like the mock or fake cakes of today in which it was all either hardened sugar or hardened frosting on the top layers. As you know the use of the fake cake is for pictures now and the first cut. Nowadays the fake cake after the first cut and pictures is taken to the kitchen or back room while the cuttings for the guests are taken from a sheet cake of the same frosting design. This is both for convenience and to keep the cost of the wedding cake down to a minimum.

Now, the trend tends to be for a deeper cakes, and we are back to stacked in the traditional straight stair-step up. The only break from tradition is the deepness and the dimensions of the layers are a little bigger to accommodate more guests. Nowadays, the cake no longer has to be the traditional round layered cake, but can be a veritable extravaganza of shapes and sizes, but are usually still stacked one on top of the other. The wedding cake as we know is the center of the wedding reception, much like the Bride has evolved to be the center of the entire event. It is said that the dress and the cake should be chosen with equal care. In the beginning of the dessert for the wedding it was called Bride 'something', whether it was pie, cake, or non edibles like the bridesmaids, and bridegroom, all to denote the day of marriage was to be centered on the bride. It was and is her day.

In terms of the decor of the cake for 2011 there seems to be a trend of elaborate decorations for the cake. Such as mimicking the bride's dress (lace or flowers) or some elaborate part of the theme of the wedding. I have seen beautiful crisp white cakes with what look to be butter cream frosting dipped or sprayed Vanilla wafers that wrap around each layer of the cake. The sugar flowers are still big, along with butterflies, and now etchings or drawings of trees and entire forests on the cake. The colors of the traditional cake is usually white to denote the purity of the bride and the whole ceremony. Now this year and next, that trend has been tossed out the window to replicate the brides' wedding colors, or the couple favorite colors. Much like the theme of the Groom's Cake. The Groom's Cake was first introduced in early American wedding ceremonies. It was traditional for the groom's cake to be chocolate and maybe decorated with the groom's hobbies displayed in sugar decorations on the cake. Now though through contemporary times the Groom's cake is not used much other than in the southern states of America.

Okay, by now, you know, I do research on trivial/little known traditions, so let me tell you why, supposedly we are to keep the top of the cake for a year and then eat it with your spouse on your one year anniversary. You know I had to know. One, because it seems so random. Two, our cake did not make it through the first six months (My husband had never heard of that tradition and thought that I'd forgotten that we had cake in the freezer. Ate, some of it and then called to remind me that we had cake. Do I hear a collective intake of shocked breath?) The tradition comes from the 19th century [There were a lot of things pertaining to cakes happening during that century. I wonder if Queen Victoria of the United Kingdom loved cake. Yum.] Anyway, during the 19th century, it was usual and expected that the bride and groom would invariably have a child 9 months or so after their marriage, so the top layer of the cake was saved to have at the Christening. This was before refrigeration, so where were they keeping it? For nine months and was it still any good? Boggles the mind doesn't it? Maybe they were filled with liquor to keep or fermented or fermenting fruit?
Here's the last one I came across, but I am sure there are many others, do you know how the tiered cake became the tiered cake? No? It seems guests of a wedding would bring sweet buns to the wedding feast, pile them as high as possible and the request, probably demand the new married couple to kiss over the top of the sweet buns. A French men came along in England and said enough with the piled sweet buns, let me just make a cake that has tiers.

Actually I have heard and read in the last year that bakers do not subscribe to the idea of holding onto the cake for a year, since unless it is a whiskey or rum soaked cake it will be the worse for wear after a year, even in the freezer. Much like my husband said, that it was getting dry sitting in the freezer. The reason our particular cake was getting dry, had nothing to do with the ability of my baker, it was the ingredients I had requested. I was trying to give up wheat at the time and requested the top layer to be made from rice flour. Well, if you know anything about baking or even rice, you know that rice is one of those foods that absorbs the liquids around it, much like mushrooms, or potatoes do. Even though she used mayonnaise to add moisture to this cake, even after just five short months the rice flour had completely sapped up all the moisture in the cake itself and was already dry, as my dear husband told me as he was eating it.

That's another thing if you have special diets, which I did at the time, make sure that whomever your baker is, that she or he is on your side as to what you want. Do not go to someone who does not respect what you want. You are paying for the cake. They may say they are an artist and they have always done it a certain way, but you are paying and as an artist, they should be flexible. Artistic ability is a show of compliance and flexibility to make something beautiful out of almost anything... or even difficult situations.

Make Your Wedding Invitations - What Size Should My Invitations Be?


First, Congratulations! You are getting married! You want to invite your family and friends to share this important day with you. How do you decide on what size invitation you should use. If you make your wedding invitations, what size should they be?

Don't get caught in thinking your invitations have to be any particular size. It can be almost any size. The most important thing is that you have a nice, neat and informative invitation. If you ever looked at the wedding catalogs you will see they come in all sizes.

I have made invitations that would fit in a #10 business envelope. They certainly didn't look like a business piece when they were done. You can use almost any size. A lot of wedding announcements will be made to fit in an A7 envelope. This means they are approximately 5 x 7 inches when folded. Then the RSVP would be fit an A2 envelope size which is 4 1/8 inches by 5 1/2 inches when folded. Your reception card will usually be the same size as the RSVP but no envelope for it.

If you want to save money try calling your local print shop and see if they have envelopes available. Most of the time you will want a white or off white, eru or ivory color. These are neutral so you can use any ink color for your theme. Then when you have your envelopes get card stock cut to work for that size.

Another inexpensive idea is to go to the craft stores and purchase packages of blank cards and matching envelopes. Today it really isn't necessary to have double envelopes. A lot of invitations are going away from this tradition.

Buying the invitation kits can be a great help also. They have the extras already done so you wont' have to embellish them. You may find that the kits are being used a lot. If they won't fit in your plan for a fun theme, thinking about starting from scratch. It really isn't that difficult.

There is no real size that you should conform to for an invitation. You can make your wedding invitations what ever size you like. Keep in mind that the larger you go the more postage you may have to pay.

You may even want to make your wedding invitations as a single seal and send. These do not require an envelope. So you can see you have many options available to you. The main thing is to have a nice affordable invitation that you will be proud to send. So whether you make your wedding invitations or not, know you have options.

Wedding Insurance - What You Need to Know


When it comes to weddings, several people have various superstitions that buying a policy will jinx the marriage, but in the real world, wedding insurance is a great way to protect your special day from various disasters that could occur. Of course, most weddings go off without a hitch, but what if you are not prepared and something happens? Those that paid for the wedding will be out thousands of dollars. The good news is most wedding insurance policies are very affordable since it is a one-time policy, meaning it is only valid for the day of your marriage.

What does wedding insurance cover? It covers those events that could come up that are not predictable. For instance, a car accident, weather conditions, no power at the reception, wedding rings go missing, photographer loses photos, vendors not showing up, or the wedding gown is somehow damaged. When you have spent precious time and money planning your perfect wedding, never forget to take out the wedding liability insurance.

Obviously, no one wants to think about the possibility of a wedding having disastrous events take place, but it could happen, and because of that, purchasing wedding insurance makes the best sense. When weddings are planned, they are often far into the future, and if you are planning an outdoor wedding, you have no way of knowing what the weather will be like on your big day.

Of course, you need to think about booking your band and photographer, which is often a year or more in advance. What would you do on the day of the wedding if you had no photographer? Wedding insurance will cover the costs of having your wedding party come together to take the photos. Perhaps the wedding has been planned for a year, the day approaches, and the bride or groom has the flu, obviously, they cannot get married. With wedding insurance, you can reschedule the wedding, but if you did not have insurance you have to get married with the flu or lose money.

Wedding insurance typically pays for rescheduling if there is bad weather for an outdoor wedding. In addition, theft and damages to the wedding area, those flying into the wedding (that are part of the wedding) are delayed, the photographer does not show, the death of a close loved one on either the bride or the groom's side, and if one of you are active military and had to leave are all included.

Typically, if the bride or the groom has cold feet and backs out of the wedding, this is not covered under the insurance policy, because this could have been prevented. However, the insurance does pay for accidents that happen at your wedding, such as tripping on the wedding decorations that were placed by the professionals. Property damage is also covered under the wedding insurance, if the damage was a direct result of the wedding.

Wedding insurance is your best line of defence against mishaps that could happen on your big day. Today, weddings typically cost upwards of $25,000, which would be money wasted if something went wrong on the big day. Wedding insurance makes sense to have just like health insurance or homeowners insurance, you hope you never need it, but if you do, you are certainly happy you have it.

Caring For Titanium Jewelry


Titanium has a lot of good characteristics that make it suitable for jewelry. It is stronger, harder, wears better and wont deform. It is also lighter and its colorful oxide coating is immune to time.

However, like all kinds of jewelry, titanium rings will get surface scratches or scuffs with everyday use. Storing a titanium ring in a big drawer is a bad idea since it may acquire scratches as it rubs against other items. These scratches will be noticeable in a new ring. Oil and dirt can also temporarily dull its color.

To protect your investment, remove your ring during activities that may make it prone to abrasion or hard knocks. In fact, don't wear any kind of ring at the gym, when gardening, playing sports, or at the beach. Small scratches in polished titanium can be removed with a cream metal polish. Use a soft towel to do this and remove polish residue with liquid dish soap.

Since abrasives can gradually wear away the surface coloring, don't use harsh chemicals to clean your ring. Avoid metal polishes or scrubbing soaps since these have abrasives that may scrub away the sub-micron thick color layer. Instead use rubbing alcohol, window cleaner, or non-moisturizing soap and water and a soft cloth to remove dulling dirt and oils.

Anodized products are best cleaned with warm soapy water then dried with a soft tissue. This will restore the rings optical purity and color. Clean a satin finished ring with a fine nylon pad that you can easily get from auto shops or hardware stores to restore the soft brushed finish. Don't rub the pad over anodized color surfaces or you will ruin the color.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Just Married Banner - How To Properly Decorate The Wedding Getaway Car


After the wedding and during the reception, while the bride and groom are suitably distracted with food, family and friends, traditionally is the time the wedding getaway car gets ambushed and thoroughly decorated. However, there are ways to decorate the car that is tasteful and reasonable so the bride and groom don't have to remove most of the decorations simply to drive away. The best way to decorate the getaway car starts with a Just Married banner and goes from there.

Here's a list of things you can use to decorate the getaway car and how to do it reasonably and safely.

* Use things on the car that can be easily removed. For instance, use a Just Married banner across the back of the car instead of painting it on with shoe polish. Not only can shoe polish damage the paint job on the car, but putting shoe polish on the windows can create blind spots when driving.

* The ever popular tin cans are still perfect to draw attention to the happy couple. Do ensure they're strung together with string or cord that will take the abuse of being dragged for at least a mile before the lucky groom can find a place to pull over and remove them.

* Streamers look great on the wedding car and even though they won't last long, they'll definitely draw attention to the car as it goes down the road.

* If you do want to write words on the car itself as well as using a Just Married banner, you'll want to find a paint that won't affect the finish of the car and that washes off easily.

* Don't block the windshield or rear window with any decorations as this can pose a safety hazard. Also, the drivers and passenger windows shouldn't be blocked either.

* Balloons tied to the radio aerial and to the windshield wipers are great, especially if you use helium balloons since they won't be in the line of vision.

Weddings are a very happy time for everyone involved and sharing that with everyone who sees the wedding getaway car is a way to expand that happiness as much as possible. Using a Just Married banner, tin cans, streamers and other cool decorations on the car is a great way to do just that. Take a look at all the great decorations you can use to ambush the wedding car with at the next wedding you go to. Not only will you get a laugh out of doing it, but the wedding couple will have a great time with it as well.

Summer Gift Essentials - Wedding Gift Ideas for a Summer Celebration


Warm weather and weddings go hand in hand. Everywhere we go these days, we see the signs of marriage. Whether it's a car with empty soda cans strung across the trunk and the phrase "Just Married" scrawled in whipped cream, or the actual event taking place at a nearby park, we are seeing these summer newlyweds all over the globe! Perhaps you know one yourself and are searching for the perfect gift? We've got you covered with gift giving tips and unique and affordable gift ideas that you can create yourself or buy all ready to go.

Wedding Gift Tips & Ideas:

Every newlywed couple needs the summer essentials. If they are getting married in the summer, they will be celebrating summer anniversaries for the rest of their married days. Think summer if you are looking for a wedding gift through the month of September.

Be unique in your gift giving. It is so much more personal and fun than choosing a gift off a gift registry! Think about what the special couple likes to do in the summertime. Are they campers? Do they spend time on a boat or go on cruises? Take lengthy vacations? Personalize their gift to fit their needs and their lifestyle.

Give a variety of gifts that are affordable. What fun it is to open a gift with several little gifts inside! Hence the popularity of the gift basket! And the options are unlimited! Use something versatile to put the gifts inside, something that they can use again for years to come. The all traditional gift basket makes a beautiful container for a gift arrangement and it can be used again for several purposes. However, don't feel limited by this option. There are several other "containers" that would work great for this gift giving idea. For example, a nice tote bag, an insulated cooler bag, a picnic basket, the possibilities are only limited by your creativity!

The ingredients in your gift set can be such fun to pick out. For the beach goers, use a nice tote bag and fill it with his and hers beach towels (perhaps embroidered) with two pairs of matching flip flops, a beach blanket (could have this embroidered as well), some sunscreen and anything else you can think of! This is a fun, creative and personal gift idea for newlyweds. Lake dwellers may enjoy an insulated cooler (embroidered for a fancy gift) filled with refreshing beverages and snacks. A nice picnic basket can be filled with gourmet treats, a bottle of wine, fancy wine opener and embroidered napkins and picnic blanket. Then there's the classic and popular gift basket, which you can fill with absolutely anything the couple will enjoy.

If you are limited on time and creativity, you can always find picnic baskets and gourmet gift baskets that are all ready to buy. CraftyGiftCreations.com offers many varieties of gourmet gift baskets and picnic baskets that are unique wedding gift ideas and sure to please the happy couple.

Proper Etiquette and Tips For Your Wedding Invitations


Many couples are opting for the traditional engraved invitation, as deeply rooted a custom as entering the church to the music of Wagner and leaving to Mendelsson. Despite the many other wedding traditions that have changed, this style of invitation has prevailed since the late 1800's, according to leading manufacturers and suppliers of wedding invitations.

The top selling wedding invitations of today don't look much different than they did 100 years ago. With the exception of the 1970s, when couples sought unconventional invitations with bright colors and creative wordings, the traditional engraved invitation has been the most popular choice.

The engraving process embosses letters into the paper, creating a raised look and feel to the surface. The lettering, usually engraved on cream or white cotton-content paper is most often royal or classical script. The design is simple and the wording standard, according to traditional rules of etiquette.

There are many traditions associated with marriage. The engraved invitation is one of them. Wedding invitations set the mood, style and tone of the wedding. For many couples who have conventional church weddings, the traditional invitation is most appropriate.

Tiffany & Co., the internationally renowned luxury goods supplier and oldest stationary company in America, is a firm believer in the traditional invitation. The company has strict guidelines for the design and wording of the invitations they produce and will only sell invitations deemed "proper" by traditional standards.

Only as recently as five years ago did Tiffany & Co. begin putting reply cards and envelopes into their sample books. According to rules of proper etiquette, recipients of wedding invitations are supposed to send a handwritten letter of response to the bride and groom within 24 hours. However, the company decided to add the reply cards and envelopes to their product line because contemporary society has not been conditioned to letter writing. Without the reply cards the bride has no assurance of total guest turnout.

Tiffany & Co. has also had to adapt traditional wording of invitations to accommodate all family structures such as families with only one parent, divorced parents, etc.

In addition to modifying the wording, today's invitation can be designed to express one's individuality without breaking tradition. Many couples are requesting embossed borders or motifs to accent the traditional invitation. Adding a ribbon or embossing a personal monogram or family crest are other ways to customize the invitation without compromising the integrity that the traditional engraved invitation conveys.

Etiquette 'experts' also agree that the traditional engraved invitation is the most proper form of wedding correspondence. It is far better to write personal letters or inform your friends of your marriage by phone than to have your invitations printed rather than properly engraved. According to these experts, do it right or don't do it at all.

The rich quality and elegant look of the traditional invitation is the best way for brides to tell family and friends that their presence is greatly valued on this important occasion.

For the bride who wants to be absolutely proper and follow the rules of traditional social etiquette, following are some of the guidelines

- Invitations should always be engraved.

- The paper selected should be white, or ivory, 100 cotton content paper.

- The most traditional lettering is script. There are many styles to choose from.

- In the strictest of traditional standards, the groom's parents should never be listed on the invitation along with the bride's.

- If divorced parents are both sponsoring their daughter's wedding, names should be listed with the mother's preceding, followed by the father's on the next line.

- For a conventional church wedding, the wording of the invitation should read "request the honor of your presence".

- For a wedding ceremony that is to be performed somewhere other than a church, the invitation should read "request the pleasure of your company".

- The place of the reception should never be written on the invitation itself unless the wedding ceremony is taken place there.

- There is no need to put the year of the wedding on the invitation because it is a timely event.

Finally, if proper etiquette is important to you, you should follow these rules. Keep in mind that slight variations will not mean the end of the world. After all, it is your wedding day and you should do what you feel is best for your individual situation.

The Real Reason Why You Need Wedding Insurance


Here's a quick and simple test to help you understand the real importance of wedding insurance. Because for most people the idea of wedding insurance sounds a little like being yet another way for companies to take advantage of your happiness and take more money away from your flower budget.

A lot of people tend to imagine that they are largely responsible for the success of the wedding. Having to take out a wedding insurance policy seems a little as though they're admitting that they're unreliable. It demonstrates a remarkable lack of faith in themselves. However not only is this not the case, the reality is frighteningly different.

So here's the simple test. All you have to do is to work out how many people you are actually relying on for the success of your wedding. Obviously there's your wedding party, which will be around a dozen people, then there are the key guests you could dream of not having with you, so that might be another half dozen.

You then have the people at the venue, which might be another half dozen or so, and then the caterers, the florist, the DJ and the chauffeurs.

Obviously you'll have the vicar, priest or designated official to carry out the service, and the photographer to capture the whole thing. So far you could be well over the fifty mark, and you may find yourself heading rapidly towards the three-score-and-then-some margin.

The next task is to imagine giving each of those fifty or more people a glass ball, and telling them to hold it tight, and carry out with them at all times for the next several months. They mustn't drop it, break it, crack it or lose it, and in several months time must bring it back in the exact same condition.

How confident are you that you'd receive all fifty glass balls intact? Perhaps you're completely confident, although many people would feel rather hesitant at offering a guarantee of confidence in several dozen complete strangers. Wedding insurance is there to protect your balls. As it were.

Because statistically there will always be one or two balls broken. Sometimes you can carry on, sometimes a broken or lost ball will cost you a few extra hundred pounds to replace, and sometimes the missing ball will be so critical that the entire wedding will have to be postponed.

By taking out wedding insurance you can relax, knowing that even if the odd ball does get dropped, broken or lost, sorting out a replacement will be far simpler, and will cost you nothing. Venues do get double booked, or get flooded, burnt down or go bankrupt. Florists, DJs and chauffeurs can also go bankrupt or get things wrong, people do die or fall ill, and even get themselves arrested and locked up. If you can imagine a disaster, then it's already happened. Many times.

Wedding insurance packages are available starting from less than 瞿20, which is only the cost of a few drinks at the bar afterwards. It's important to make sure you're covered, because just like the glass balls, it takes very little to cause your wedding plans to shatter.

Cheap and Frugal Scrapbooking


I have always been a proponent of cheap scrapbooking. I mean, I totally love using new products and I'll admit to spending into the double digits for some scrapbooking pages. But I love being frugal too and I like the creativity that can come from not having a ton to spend on scrapbooking supplies. So what are some of the ways that you can keep your money in the bank and still make great layouts? Here are some of my suggestions to be "cheap" without looking like it:

1.) Look around the house. You would be surprised what "scrapbooking" supplies you can find. I have used many household supplies or products including: paperclips, craft paint (not only can you use it to accent a page, but you can use it the same way you use stamp ink), old envelopes and used stamps (great for destination/travel pages), old/broken jewelry (use as embellishments), shopping/clothing/market tags (you can paint over, dye, or cover them), wrapping paper, gift ribbon, hair ribbons or rubber bands, game pieces, old maps, book pages (as backgrounds), cereal/shoe boxes (for chipboard) and much more. Just be careful that these items are acid free or at least if they are not, won't be touching any of your photos.

2.) Go digital - or at least a little bit. There are many sites out there that offer freebies every week or so. I have stated loading up on these free downloads. Not only can you use them to do digital scrapbooking layouts, but I take parts of them and print them off to use on my regular scrapbooking layouts. And the great things about these is that you can print them again and again for different pages. Check out http://www.scrapgirls.com and http://www.digitalfreebies.com for some freebies.

3.) Have a scrapbooking supply swap. The next time you want to get together to scrapbook, just tell everyone that you will be having a "swap" table where people can bring supplies they don't use any more or don't want. You could also make it a sale too if someone wants to sell something they have. The last time I did this kind of "swap" I ended up going home with a ton of papers and stickers that others didn't want.

Scrapbooking may not be the cheapest hobby out there, but it needn't be expensive. I am sure there are lots of other ways that each individual can make it even more affordable. If you have any more ideas for making scrapbooking cheaper, let me know your great discoveries.

Wedding Invitation Wording Samples to Use When the Bride and Groom Are Inviting


One of the most important steps in the process of ordering your wedding invitations is writing the wedding invitation wording.

Formal wedding invitations should follow proper wedding invitation etiquette. All invites, whether formal, casual or traditional or non-traditional should include the following:

* Bride's and Groom's full names (including middle names for formal invites)
* Day and date of the wedding
* The year should be written out on the next line following the date
* Time of the wedding
* Location of the wedding (formal wedding invitations usually just include the name of the church or building, while less formal or casual wedding invitations might also include the street address)
* City and State (do not include zip code)

Those are the essentials, the things that you absolutely MUST include in your wedding invitation wording. Other than that, you can be very creative with the rest of the wording. If you are having a non-traditional wedding, do not feel like you must follow all of the rules of etiquette. You can add a favorite poem, scripture or verse. Or you could write something to reflect your own personal story of how you met and why you are getting married. You could even use a verse that relates to the season in which you are getting married.

Some other things you must think about when writing your wedding invitation wording are things like:

* Who is doing the inviting. (Bride's parents, Bride's and Groom's parents, Bride and Groom, Children of Bride and Groom, etc.)
* If the Bride's or Groom's parents are deceased
* If the Bride's or Groom's parents are divorced
* If it is a second (or third or fourth) marriage
* If the wedding is being held in a Church or at a Home or other non-church location

Here are some samples of wedding invitation wording where the Bride and Groom are doing the inviting:

With joyous hearts
we invite you to attend
the wedding of
LaJune Nashea Hamilton
and
Donovan Ramond Williamson
Saturday, the twenty-fifth of April
Two thousand and ten
at five thirty in the evening
Venetian Terrace
215 Mandalay Canal
Arlington, Texas

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Please join us
for a celebration of
Love, friendship, laughter, and family
as
Audrey Davidson
and
Donny Wolverton
Join their hands in holy matrimony
Saturday, August 22
two thousand and ten
at six o'clock in the evening
Windy Road Ranch
Lubbock, Texas

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Together With Their Parents And Family
Luanna Gutierrez
And
Ryan Jacob Dominguez
Request The Honour Of Your Presence
As They Join Hands In Holy Matrimony
Saturday, The Twenty-First Of November
Two Thousand And Nine
At One O'clock In The Afternoon
Holy Spirit Catholic Church
Hemet, California

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Because you have shared in
our lives
by your friendship and love we,
Nicole Bernadette Cypert
and
Nicholas Thomas Jacobson
together with our parents
invite you to share
the beginning of our new life together
when we exchange marriage vows
on Friday, the ninth of May
two thousand eleven
at five o'clock in the evening
Paradise Country Club
Madison, Wisconson

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You are invited to a celebration
of the beginning of our new life together
as Mari D'Lynn Martin
and
Colton Jeremy Jamison
are united as husband and wife
Friday, the twenty-seventh of March
two thousand and ten
at two o'clock in the afternoon
First Baptist Church
Jersey City, New Jersey

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We joyfully invite you to our wedding celebration.
On this day we will marry the one
we laugh with, live for, dream with, and love.
Please join
Kathryn Marie Longbotham
and
Miles David Thornton
at seven o'clock in the evening
on Friday, June twenty-sixth
two thousand and ten
Wenten Chapel
Roanoke, Virginia

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The honor of your presence
is requested at the marriage of
Allysa Lauren Montgomery,
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Paul Montgomery
and
Bodie Todd Forseman
son of Mr. and Mrs. Scott B. Forseman
Sunday, the eleventh of August
Two thousand and eleven
at two o'clock in the afternoon
Our Lady of Guadalupe Cathedral
Santa Fe, New Mexico

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Again, these are just samples of wedding invitation wording. Brides and grooms can get creative and create their own unique wording for their wedding invitation. But these are the basics. If the wedding is more casual, rather than formal, the wording on the wedding invitation can be more casual as well and does not necessarily have to follow all of the proper wedding invitation etiquette rules. One thing to keep in mind though, is that most people are constantly in a hurry and tend to skim whatever they are reading. So, you might want to keep your wording fairly basic.

Tip: Make sure to get someone who has never seen your wedding invitation before to proof read the final copy. They will often find errors which you have missed because you have become too familiar with the wording. Ask them to check the date with a calendar to make sure the date is correct. They should also check for spelling errors as well as grammar. Have them read it out loud to see if everything flows and makes sense.

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Make Your Wedding Invitations - 5 Scrapbook Items That Might Help


You have all your plans in motion. The date is set, the time and place are scheduled. Now you need to send out the invitations to your wedding. You have decided to make your wedding invitations. What can you use to make them nicer.

If you go to your local scrap book store you can find lots of helpful items.

Here are five scrapbook items that you can use when you make your wedding invitations.


  1. A small die cut punch. You can find these in all kinds of shapes. Hearts, stars, half moons, many that would be neat for an invitation for your wedding. You might even have everything in the envelopes put them all to one corner and cut so they all line up.

  2. A neat die cut line. These are longer and have some nice decorative touches. You can put them at the top or bottom of your invitation as a very decorative line. They even make cut out borders that you can use.

  3. If you get the ruler with cutters you can buy wheels that make nice edges on your invitations and RSVP cards. You can even get a perforation wheel that you can use for tear apart sections.

  4. Cutouts. Usually you can get some decorative packages of cutouts. These will vary. Maybe some hearts or neat colored shapes. Sometimes they peel away and stick to your cards. You might find some borders too. Lots of choices for these. The prices vary greatly, so look around

  5. Bundles of colored paper. These can be used to add some color. Cut out your own shapes with the die cuts and add to the invitations, envelopes, etc. You might even use a sheet for your tissue paper.
So you can see that all these items are pretty inexpensive and great ways to add when you make your wedding announcements.

Once you have printed your invitation you can get busy adding your own style. Using items from a scrap book store can be fun and inexpensive to do. Just adding something as simple as a heart cut out to the top of your invitation can add a small accent that will make it stand out.

You don't have to great extremes to have a nice elegant invitation. Adding small touches can dress it up just enough.

Putting a lot of money into your invitations for your wedding doesn't make sense. You have so much more that you need to focus on. But don't take your invitations lightly. They will give your guests the first impression as to what kind of wedding to expect. Make your wedding invitations nice but don't spend a lot of money doing it.

Latest Trends in Wedding Invitations


Every woman desires a perfect wedding which starts with the wedding invitation. This nuptial missive connects the bride and groom to the guests as it conveys all the necessary information to the guests and enabling the guests to respond to the couple. Invitations to weddings set the tone of that special day, as well as the entire wedding.

Whether in fashion or in food, people put a lot of emphasis on new trends. Wedding trends are no exception and most couples are adopting innovative invitations. Here are some of the latest trends in wedding stationery which will help loving couples prepare for that Great Day.


  • The Pocket Wedding Invitation - is a contemporary and practical option because all of your wedding particulars are kept neatly organized in a nice little pocket. The Enclosure/Step and RSVP cards fit comfortably in the pocket, giving your invitation a polished yet whimsical appeal. These invitations also adds a little flair and style while paying homage to a classic look.

  • The Lace Invitation - captures a look of dramatic elegance. The offer a delicate charm. Adding ribbons and other embellishments to your lace invitations will give them a little sparkle and a wonderful finishing touch.

  • The Laser-Cut Invitation - The laser has the ability to cut and etch. This give way to some very dramatic results. The final product is usually very impressive displaying intricacy and fine details. Laser cutting paper is a relative new trend in invitations.

  • Ribbon Wedding Invitation - Try accenting your wedding invitations with ribbons and bows. Gorgeous ribbons and attractive bows are wonderful embellishments for invitations. Adding these luxurious accents to your wedding invitations will give your guests a lasting impression. There is such a huge assortment of styles, hues, sizes and shapes to choose from you won't have any trouble coming up with a stunningly attractive invitation!

  • Layered Wedding Invitation - is another great way to enhance your card. You can impart your own uniqueness and personality with these cards, setting the mood for that special day as you and beloved become husband and wife. Selecting an invitation composed of wraps, ribbons, and layers, shows that you want your wedding day be a unique and unforgettable event with flair that your guests will always remember.

Wedding stationery mark the first step towards a new life for the loving couple. They are a reflection of the coming together of the bride and groom with all their family and friends to help them celebrate their special day so they must be thoughtfully chosen, complementing loving couple.

Negotiating Ring Prices for the Engagement Ring or Diamond Wedding Ring


When buying an engagement ring (wedding ring), you need to understand that ring prices are not set in stone (Yes, pun intended). Like other big purchases (think of a house or a car) the price of a diamond engagement or wedding ring is completely negotiable. If you do not know how to haggle or negotiate on the price of an engagement ring, you'll probably end up paying more than you should.

Be Educated about Ring Prices

Do you know why engagement rings cost what they do? If not, then it's time to find out. Tutor yourself on the 4 C's (cut, color, clarity, and carat) and how they affect diamond price. Learn about the metals used in engagement rings and what they typically cost. You will need to know what is a fair price for a specific stone and setting.

Determine Your Price Range (and Stick To It)

When doing your research to figure out fair diamond prices, start to narrow it down to the types of ring you like. When you actually go to the jeweler, you should have a fairly good idea of what you want and how much it should cost.

Don't let the salesperson talk you into a bigger purchase, and don't reveal your maximum price right away. When you enter the jeweler's and the salesperson asks you what you're looking for, describe the ring you want instead of the price you want.

No Spur of the Moment Decisions

Salespeople in jewelry stores work on commission, and they want you to buy your engagement ring right there and then. But don't let them pressure you. It's okay to come back later, to shop around at different jewelers, or even to buy a stone in one place and have it placed in the setting at another. Ring prices are rarely good "for today only."

Watch for Hidden Fees

There may be extra costs associated with setting the stone, the ring box, the diamond inspection, ring insurance, or sales tax. Know whether these extras are part of the purchase price or not. If you can't bring down the price of the ring in negotiations, maybe you can have some of the extras thrown in for free.

Be Prepared to Walk Away

If the ring seller is just not coming down to what you feel is reasonable, it's okay to walk away. There are lots of jewelers with equally beautiful rings for you to purchase. Letting the salesperson know you intend to keep shopping around for a better price (or even just pretending that you are) may even be a powerful bargaining chip on your end.

Protect yourself against overpaying for your engagement ring by educating yourself, deciding on a price range, and staying firm. Negotiating a fair price with an experienced salesperson can be intimidating, but it will pay off in the long run.

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