Saturday, December 7, 2013

A Husband's Baby Shower Party Gifts to His Wife - Shower of Love and Support


The term "baby showers" belies the fact that these are not just parties meant for friends and family to give necessary baby supplies and accessories to the expectant mother. These are also great opportunities to pamper the expectant mother. Thus, family and friends can bring baby shower party gifts for the mommy.

This thoughtfulness for the mother more than equally applies to her husband. Tokens and gifts to your wife will make her feel more special, more womanly, more loved, and even more sexually desirable. Indeed, with all that your pregnant wife has been through and will go through, a special gift from you will be truly cherished.

What You Can Give

As her husband, you must know her favorites and hates. This makes choosing baby shower party gifts easier. Just think of what will make her happy, regardless if it seems trivial or silly to you, and do it for her. The emphasis is on doing it since her happiness can depend on a simple act rather than on an expensive gift.

You can give her more time. Indeed, increasing the quantity of time you spend with her is often more desirable than enhancing quality time. One of your baby shower party gifts can be a homemade gift certificate stating that you will be her slave for a few days; or a made-up contract promising to be with her more or else you face consequences. Be imaginative and put fun in your relationship again!

You can give her things to help her record her progress and your baby's development. Have a special scrapbook made especially for her; this can contain your pictures and mementos when you were still dating, your wedding, and memories of her pregnancy. Very romantic, indeed!

You can also give her bath essentials as baby shower party gifts. Give her bath kits of her favorite brand or her favorite scent. Gift her with a luxurious bath robe in her favorite color; or lingerie in her favorite style at her present size. These gifts will show that you find her womanly and desirable, despite her general feelings of bodily insecurity.

For most women, jewelry occupies a special place in their hearts. Gift her with special jewelry in her favorite style and gemstone. Sometimes, a woman likes to feel that she deserves all the most precious gems in the world. Now is your time!

How You Can Give Your Gifts

When you have decided on your special mommy baby shower party gifts, be imaginative with how you present it to her. Use special gift wrapping, create your own gift basket, or have it specially delivered as a surprise.

You can give them in front of her guests or you can give them in the privacy of your bedroom. The choice of gifts and presentation should depend on how she likes her gifts.

Ultimately, a husband must be there for his wife every step of the way in her pregnancy. Being there means not just in the physical presence, but more importantly, in showing her how much you love her and your child in the little things you do.

Subcontract Equipment or Services? Then You Need Contracts For Event Planning


Contracts for Event Planning may very well save your day if the worst happens. Imagine you have an event at a local hotel. It is a corporate event for a local company and this contract will not only pay you very well, but also bring you lots of work in the future. This could be the one you have been waiting for.

It is a large affair with over 1000 guests coming, mostly VIP's and other top management and they will be having a sit down dinner and lots of great entertainment and you will be providing lights, sound and the catering!

It all sound absolutely great. Everything is going nicely and the guests start arriving. VIP after VIP taking their seats and waiting excitedly for the event to begin.

Suddenly, there is a massive crash as one of the speaker stands falls onto the table and lands right into the sitting VIP's. An ambulance is called and two of the guests are injured and taken away to the hospital. It looks like this could be a disaster for you.

Later you find out that the guests are ok, but they want to seek damages for their hospital bills and they are probably justified in wanting that.

But who is responsible?

Well there are at least 2 questions to ask:

Who supplied the equipment?
And
If it was subcontracted, do you have a contract with them?

If the equipment is your equipment, then you are liable and your insurance company will probably have to pay up the costs.

If the equipment is subcontracted you may still be liable. How so as the equipment is not yours? Surely the owner will be liable?

If you have a back-to-back contract with the owner of the equipment that states that as the owner, they will assume responsibility for all damages or claims against that specific equipment, then they will be liable. However, if you have no contract that states that they are liable, sadly to say you are, even though the equipment is not yours.

Contracts for event planning are essential, not just with the venue and the caterers, but with everyone involved in the event. You are not qualified to draft contracts (probably) so make sure that you seek professional advice about your contracts.

Did you know for example, that you may be in breach of copyright if you just download a contract from the internet and use it for your event? It is essential that your lawyer draws up your contracts for event planning.

Baby Shower Party Planning Essentials


Originating in the US and widely popular throughout North & South America, South Africa & Australia, Baby Shower Parties are now increasingly gaining popularity and awareness here in the UK.

But what is a baby shower? Well, basically it's a party, thrown usually for the mum-to-be (but can include both parents), to celebrate the imminent arrival of her baby. Much like a Hen Do, these parties involve getting the mum-to-be's friends and family together for some fun before the baby arrives (although usually without as much alcohol involved!). Some baby showers are arranged with the knowledge and input of the mum-to-be, although it's more usual for them to be organized by a close friend or family member as a surprise.

You may have heard about some of the baby showers held for pregnant celebrities where thousands of pounds are spent and hundreds of guests invited. However, for most of us mere mortals, a smaller scale party is the norm.

A typical baby shower would be held for a few hours during the afternoon, at the home of the party organizer or of the mum-to-be (as long as someone else helps clear up afterwards!). Usually there would be some kind of catering (afternoon tea & cake and some light buffet food works particularly well); some party games (baby shower bingo is a fun, easy one but there are many to choose from); opening of gifts (not essential but as most people would buy a gift for a friend's baby it's a nice time to give it); but most importantly a chance for a good old gossip, lots of fun and to make mum-to-be feel special before the baby comes and she is no longer the centre of attention!

Here are our top tips for a fabulous baby shower:


  • Get organizing in plenty of time - you ideally want to hold the baby shower about 6 weeks before the due date in case baby makes an early unexpected appearance! Aim to give guests about 3 or 4 weeks notice of the date of the party and allow 1 - 2 weeks to get rsvp's back (top tip: get people to rsvp to an email address rather than by post - these days everyone has access to email and they are more likely to respond back quickly).

  • Keep it a surprise unless you know that mum-to-be is not good with being kept in the dark or wants to help organize it herself.

  • Purchase the decorations & partyware in time - as the baby shower phenomenon is fairly new to the UK you won't often find these items in high street shops - so allow time to order from the internet and have it delivered. (Top Tip - consider clubbing together and buying a nappy cake. Made from rolled nappies arranged in tiers like a wedding cake, they are filled with useful baby gifts and make a fantastic centerpiece for the party that also doubles up as a gift)

  • Plan how you are going to get mum-to-be to the party without spoiling the surprise. Often dad- to-be can be very helpful in getting mum out of the house for this! Give yourself enough time to get all the decorations up and for all the guests to arrive before mum-to-be.

  • Decide if you are going to play any games and how many you need. Bear in mind if there are quite a few guests it will always take more time than you think to get everyone listening to the rules of the game and to finish. If you think that your guests may be shy about joining in go for team games. (Top tip - if your guests don't all know each other, plan for an ice-breaker game on arrival - e.g. putting a sticker labeled with a baby item on the back of each person and getting them to guess what it is by asking each other questions, only giving each other yes or no answers).

  • Bear in mind that if you are pre-ordering buffet food or a themed cake, there will often be a minimum lead time for ordering so decide in good time.

  • If you are hosting the party, make sure that you organize the activities to the timescale you have decided upon. Give yourself enough time to offer drinks on arrival, get the games played, the food eaten and the gifts opened. You don't want to cram too much in especially if the party is only intended to last for a couple of hours.

  • If you are going to be giving gifts at the party allow enough time for the mum-to-be to open them - usually at least 30 minutes will be needed for this, more if there are a lot of guests.

  • At the end of the party it's a nice idea to give a little keepsake favour to your guests as a thank you for coming. There are plenty of options available ranging from more expensive items like mini photoframes or candles, through to cheaper alternatives like a little tin or organza bag filled with sweets.

  • Make sure that someone is responsible for cleaning up afterwards - especially if the party is held at mum-to-be's house!!

Get the Best Use Out of the Sony Cyber-Shot DSC H20


The Sony Cyber-shot DSC H20 seems like an ideal piece of equipment for taking pictures of your cousin's wedding. Smile shutter, face selection, anti-blink, and priority face selection all sound like excellent features when it comes time to take pictures of people. The thing is, photography is an art form, and there are techniques and tricks that this camera is also ideally suited to handle.

Dynamic Range Optimizers and 9 Point Auto Focus are two examples of these. They will make it easier to produce those artistic shots. Dynamic Range is a technology that deals with different levels of exposure to light, letting you take a picture that looks more accurate on the eye. 9 Point Auto Focus is very handy when it comes to getting that one composition just right so everybody has an easier time following it.

One of the most important features any camera can have is good Dynamic Range technology. The human eye picks up far more subtleties and variations than anything a camera exposure can pick up. Dynamic Range makes it possible to take photographs with more than one exposure at a time. Things that might be too dark or bright in a shot that looks natural in every other way can now be more natural to the human eye.

Windows are the biggest complaint when it comes to this problem. We've all had it happen to us. The window is too bright or the room is too dark. That's because the window is a light-source. The camera picks up all that light coming right in through there. Our eyes see it too, but with more subtlety. It's Dynamic Range to the rescue with several exposures at once! Different versions of Hundreds of little spots all over the picture can now be averaged together into one shot that has all the range of light we're seeing with our eyes.

Then there's 9 Point Auto Focus, something that is very important to the budding photographer. People with practiced eyes know to look for certain things in a composition that make the picture as a whole more natural and pleasurable to look at. They say the best camerawork is camerawork you don't have to think about at all.

Take a picture of someone in front of the Statue of Liberty and think about this one: Where does the Statue of Liberty go? Your subject is your girlfriend, right? So shouldn't she be in the middle? You might think so, but then you have to put the Statue somewhere too. You're not visiting the New York of an alternate universe where only the left side of the Statue of Liberty was built. If you were, it would be okay to cram it to the edge of the photograph. No, obviously you would put your girl on one side of the shot, and the statue "in front" of her.

We don't think about this when we look at a picture done right. But if the statue is half missing or "behind" her, we notice right away and want to look away. This is where 9 Point Auto Focus comes in handy. You can now have up to 9 spots in the picture, based on contrasts in the pixel values, be chosen for you. You can then decide which one you want, instead of just planting something in the middle and shooting.

With these fancy new features in the Sony Cyber-shot DSC H20, you'll be the William Eggleston of the digital field.

How To Buy The Perfect Housewarming Gift


Buying a gift for someone who has just moved into a new home isn't as easy as you might think - first of all, the options are endless and secondly you might not always know what they need. Nevertheless, it's a nice touch to turn up for the first time with a gift.

Your gift should be practical, useful or a memory-maker - or all three!

One good thing about housewarming gifts is that there is no need to wrap it. Just stick it in a gift bag or basket and you're done.

Here are some ideas for both traditional gifts and new, fresh ideas. Choose what will best represent you, your friend, and your relationship.

If you're buying a housewarming gift for a newly married couple it really couldn't be simpler - just check out their wedding gift registry and fill in any holes! For everyone else, check these out.

A Fresh Plant

A new home should always be brightened up with a plant, especially a flowering plant. It's one of the first gifts you should consider. Plants are better than fresh cut flowers, as they live longer and don't need as much maintenance. However, if you know your friend or relative has never had a plant in his or her life, skip this and move on!

Food!

Moving house, setting up and making it a home is hard work. A gift of food, such as a stew, casserole or lasagne, will be most welcome. Make it microwaveable and easy to serve, just in case they haven't unpacked the kitchen yet! In fact, include paper plates and cutlery to make even easier!

Champers!

A new home is a celebration so a gift of a bottle of champagne is a good way to mark it. Make it that bit more special with a couple of flutes for the new home owners to keep and go even further by having the date they moved in engraved on them.

Decorative Scented Candles

A safe stand-by for any housewarming gift is the scented candle. It'll help create a calming effect in the house, look nice on the mantelpiece and generally make home feel more like home.

Designer Glassware

A stunning bowl, set of glasses, picture frame, even an ashtray if the person is a smoker can really mark the moment and retain the memory of a new home. The amount of designer glassware around - from designers like Kosta Boda - that is ideal as a gift continues to grow and is more and more readily available to buy.

A Gift Basket

Be practical and thoughtful with a gift basket geared towards a specific job. Here's a few ideas for baskets that will be very well received.

Tools? Really?

Yes, really - moving in to a new home will often require a few little bits of DIY to be carried out and who can be bothered rooting through all your packing to find the right screwdriver? A gift basket of the most useful tools will be most welcome!

A Garden Basket

Help with getting the new home owners started in the garden with a basket containing basic gardening tools, some pots and some seeds. Perfect, especially if yo know the person/people to enjoy the outdoors.

A Care Package

This one goes back to food, except here you can include the basics like bread, butter, jam, milk, tea, coffee, sugar and a few tins. No-one is going to want to shop after moving home, after all, so set them up with the essentials to get started.

Top Wedding Planning Tips


1.) Staying organized is the best thing you can do to make planning your wedding go smoothly. Purchase a nice three-ring binder (and a three hole punch) with dividers to keep all of your contracts and paperwork organized and easily accessible.

2.) When asking a friend or relative to be an attendant in your wedding, be sure to explain what his or her responsibilities will be up front. This will avoid confusion later on.

3.) Try to register for gifts four to six months before the wedding. This will allow guests to purchase items from your registry for pre-wedding events. The best time to register is on a weekday evening, when crowds are thinner. Be sure to go back to the store(s) and update your registry every so often, as many stores turn over their inventory on a regular basis.

***Never include registry information with the wedding invitation - this information needs to be spread by word-of-mouth or can be included at the bottom of the shower invitation.***

4.) It is a nice idea to provide a map of the ceremony/reception site(s) in the invitations for out-of-town guests. This is one of my favorite wedding planning tips. This will cut down on a lot of confusion later on.

***As you receive response cards from your guests, write the name and address of the guest on the back. Keep the RSVP cards in alphabetical order in a recipe box. When you open your gifts, pull out each guest's card and write a description of the gift you received from them. This makes writing thank-you notes a snap!***

5.) The safest way to pay for wedding purchases is by credit card. This is one of the most important wedding planning tips. This way, if there is anything wrong with the service or product, or if there is a breach of contract, it is easier to track the purchase and get a refund if necessary.

6.) When shopping for a photographer, be sure to view a complete album of one entire wedding. Look for consistency in the shots. Seeing only "the best" pictures from many weddings does not show consistency in work. Ask yourself if the shots adequately tell the "story" of the wedding. Also, ask lots of questions, and really get to know your photographer. Remember, this person will be with you from the beginning of your big day to the end, so you want to be very comfortable with them.

7.) You may wish to look into purchasing wedding insurance. Contact a reputable insurance agency for more information.

8.) When you order your wedding flowers, be sure to order a separate "toss bouquet."

9.) Select your cake baker 3-6 months in advance. Have fun "taste-testing" different flavors!

10.) An 'emergency' kit is essential for the day of your wedding. This is an extremely vital wedding planning tip. Pack extra makeup, a comb, hair pins, needle & thread, scissors, safety pins, a nail file, clear nail polish, band aids, tissues, tooth brush, medicine, etc.

11.) Schedule your hair and make-up appointments three to six months in advance of the wedding.

12.) Try to get enough sleep, drink lots of water and eat nutritious meals during the months preceding the wedding. This will help you have lots of energy, feel great, and will make your hair, skin, and nails look their best.

13.) To avoid puffy eyes the day of your wedding, drink plenty of water at your rehearsal dinner, and avoid salt and alcohol.

***Ladies, indulge yourself with a relaxing massage a few days before the wedding. Nothing will help to calm your nerves more than the tranquil environment of your favorite spa.***

Friday, December 6, 2013

What Everybody Ought to Know About Jewelry Appraisals


For most of you, the thought of getting a Valuation or Appraisal on your Jewelry is NOT at the top of your list.

But it should be.

To often, clients assume that their Jewelry is either...


  • # Not Valuable enough to bother

  • # Covered by their Household insurance

  • # Safe on their Finger, so it won't get lost

All of these assumptions are WRONG and we cover some suggestions in our Insurance article (address given below) and the security pages under the Learning Section of the Online Appraisal Center.

If you are concerned about these matters and haven't had the chance to read them yet, we suggest you take a little side trip and cover the bases, soon as possible...

...Before the ring falls off the finger or the chain gets lost while swimming or the Diamond (was it a Diamond?)...

Get the Picture..?

That's exactly What a Jewelry Appraisal Valuation Certificate is for.

Types of Jewelry Appraisal Valuations

The main type of Valuation or Appraisal we come across is the Valuation for Insurance. This is the one you would normally receive from your local Jeweler or Gemologist.

It is basically designed to cover you (through your insurance policy) against any loss or damage you may encounter.

It is designed to provide you, wherever possible, as near a REPLACEMENT OF A SIMILAR ARTICLE as possible.

It will include any taxes or duty plus the Jewelry Trade mark up.

What Are The Other Types of Valuations?

Other forms of Valuations are...


  • # Valuation for 'Private' Sale

  • # Valuation for an 'Auction' reserve

  • # Valuation for Probate

  • # Valuation for Division of an Estate (under conditions of a Will, for example)

 Each of these types are simply a percentage of the 'Master Valuation' figure or Replacement for Insurance mentioned here.

The Master Valuation Appraisal

While these are covered briefly regarding their structure and use, you should remember that ALL of these valuations are just by-products of the Valuation Appraisals for Insurance, both in principle and procedures.

Therefore, with a little common sense and a child's school calculator, we can arrive at a final figure for any of the above situations.

After all - they need the SAME information to begin with.

If you had an Online Form which helped complete a Jewelry Appraisal for yourself, there would be no easier or quicker way to help in the majority of these cases, and you wouldn't even need a child's school calculator to complete it, because it would all be built into the Computer System.

Nice thought - but is it a reality?

Thankfully - Yes it is.

Jewelry Valuations For The Rest Of Us

While our advice is - and always has been - to get your Jewelry valued or appraised by your local, professional gemologist Valuer, it remains our belief that in the 'majority of cases' and taking into account the costs involved (your professional Valuer charges a reasonable fee for their skill and the work carried out) there is an alternative.

Any Self Appraisal Valuation can be equal to the task for a fraction of the specialized service, in a shorter timeframe, and costs much less - Lots Less...

So don't ask 'Why' - Ask yourself - 'Why Not..?

Here are some interesting Facts


  • # People thought you had to be a lawyer to write your own Will
    -Do-it-Yourself Will Kits are now Commonplace


  • # People thought you had to be an Accountant to do your Tax
    -An Online Tax Pack has been set up by the Government


  • # People thought you had to be a Real Estate Agent to sell your Home
    -FSBO (For Sale By Owner) has changed all the rules


  • # People thought you needed a Solicitor to handle a Conveyance
    -This is now no longer the case

The entire game has shifted.

# You Don't Need to be a Gemologist Valuer to write your own Appraisals. It's as Simple as filling in a Form. Anyone can do it.

Plus It Is Convenient...

You do this in your own time, at the pace you wish to go, without any pressure. You will have ample time to start your self evaluation, change your mind about something, go away for a couple of hours or days even, and when you return, start again from where you left off, finally arriving at the bottom line to print your Appraisal Certificate from Home or Work.

So What You Really Ought to Know About Jewelry Valuation Appraisals, is that it's possible and anyone can do it.

There is an Online Jewelry Appraisal do-it-yourself Valuation Kit which has been designed to be as simple as possible while remaining accurate, within the guidelines of the Jewelry Trade and Valuers Profession.

It's a Smart School Calculator.

WE ARE NOT SUGGESTING IT CAN TURN YOU INTO A QUALIFIED VALUER nor are we trying to replace your local Jeweler. That would be wrong of us to even try.

But you ought to understand the possibilities.

Our Goal here is to simply steer you in the right direction to answer a series of questions, which will lead you to the MOST PROBABLE result for any Jewelry under assessment. You have choices...

These days, it's just too easy.

Budget Wedding Invitations and Stationery


Ideally, wedding invitations should be mailed out 6-8 weeks before the big day to give guests time to make arrangements to attend and RSVP back to you.

The first step is to get organized. This is where a large tabbed file folder comes in especially handy! Begin by making a list of the people you just can't stand to get married without them there. This will probably be mostly relatives and close friends. Ask your parents and the groom's parents to provide you with a list of who they would like to invite. Make sure you have accurate addresses for all your invited guests.

One caution here: don't think you HAVE to invite everyone you know. If you haven't talked to your high school tennis partner since graduation, he or she probably doesn't need to be invited. And don't get all caught up in possibly offending someone by not inviting them to your wedding.

Often, people get sick of attending weddings for people they barely know or don't keep in touch with. Unless you talk to them every week at least, chances are pretty good that they won't give it a second thought when your invitation doesn't arrive. Remember, you're trying to save some money on your big day. Extra people means extra expense - cut corners here.

Once you have your guest list, you'll have an idea of how many invitations you'll need. Next, you'll need to pick a design.

Wedding invitations shouldn't be a big expense for you. Yes, when it's delivered all pretty in its customized envelope and small tissue square inside, it can make an impression - for about a minute! Most people read it once, note the date, take out the RSVP card and throw the invite away. So why spend a lot on them? Remember, we're trying to save money here!

The obvious thing to do with your invites is to create them yourself on your personal computer using FREE or inexpensive digital stationery. You can use Microsoft Word, OpenOffice or just about any desk top publisher (DTP) to create beautiful custom invitations that are ALL about you!

There are also inexpensive programs and websites out there specifically made for creating stationery, invitations and greeting cards. The best part about buying programs like this is being able to use it again after the wedding is over! These types of programs and websites have saved me time and again when I need to print out a special occasion letter or card (Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation) at the last minute when I've lost track of the month or date!

Just do a search on the web for "free-stationery.com" or "free-photo-greeting-cards" and you'll find an assortment of sites and software.

When creating your own invitations and stationery, you can easily buy heavy card stock at most any office supply or discount store. I would also propose that you consider some pre-designed FREE stationery which is also available all over the Internet.

I don't recommend pre-printed stationery if you are really trying to save money. You know, the kind you see in the stores in packs of 50 or 100 pages. There just aren't as many stationery designs to choose from and most of the really nice ones are almost as expensive as those you would have custom printed for your wedding. The digital stationery has taken over and have 1000s more designs to choose from for a real-you kind of feeling.

Most inkjet printers today, especially the best ones with individual color ink tanks, can print on heavy card stock or card template paper at less than 5 cents a page.

Don't have a good printer or just not really hyped up on using up all your printer's ink on your wedding invitations? Not a problem... Take your invitations or stationery to a specialized copy shop or office supply store. They can usually copy onto whatever paper you want (heavy card stock, pre-printed, etc.) and in color if you choose and your budget allows.

It's still a lot less expensive than having custom wedding invitations made.

If you are really on a budget and one of the crafty and artistic types, you could also print out simple text of your invitation then use rubber stamps or embossing powder to decorate them. Keep in mind, though, the number of invitations you'll need to embellish. If you're looking at a few hundred, you could be up late nights just decorating all of them!

The traditional practice for wedding invitations is to put the invitation inside an envelope and then place that envelope inside another envelope. The budget conscious say: Why bother? One envelope is plenty and you'll only need one stamp to mail if you use just the one.

If you're doing your own invitations, check with some small local print or card shops for leftover envelopes they might have. You can buy these at hugely discounted prices. You may even get them free just to get them out of their store room. Don't get freaked out if you have several different sizes or styles. How many people are going to compare wedding invitation envelope sizes before, during or even after the wedding? It will be our little secret ;-)

If you need to have RSVP's, consider putting it on a small postal size card. That way you eliminate an envelope and it adds to the convenience for your guests. All they have to do is fill it out and drop it in the mailbox. Of course, you'll have to provide the stamp for this card.

Consider also printing reception information directly on the invitation itself. For an RSVP, provide a phone number and/or e-mail address for guests to respond to. Not only will this save you on postage, you'll have all the information right there for your guests to refer to before the big day instead of them having to save a separate reception card.

You can use labels to print out addresses on your computer. We would suggest getting the clear labels as it just looks better. The most prominent label maker is Avery. Their website offers free templates to print out your labels, so you may want to check that out before struggling with a software program.

OpenOffice Suite (free from OpenOffice.org) and MS Word both come with most standard Avery templates built in. Just use the envelope page menus and you are all set.

If you don't like the impersonal nature of address labels, by all means, address the envelopes personally by hand. You can get information about calligraphy online or just use your best handwriting!

Just remember, computers don't have to be impersonal either. There are hundreds of calligraphy and hand writing fonts out there. A little searching on the web and you can even have your own handwriting made into a custom font.

Some brides don't want the hassle of do-it-yourself invitations. We happened to have a friend who sold wedding invitations as a side business at an incredible cheap rate and she offered up a discounted rate as a wedding gift. We ended up with 300 invitations for just $60. Not everyone can be that lucky, however. Search for "home business online greeting cards" for the most savings and best service.

Finally, when it comes to wedding invitations, one of your largest expenses is going to be the postage. You really have no control over that unless you're the Postmaster General and even then, I doubt it helps! You may want to hand deliver some invitations to save on postage. Especially to those that you see every day at work and in your neighborhood. I know I would prefer to have the bride or groom personally hand me their invitation. It tells me I'm special to them and I know it's saving them the cost of a stamp!

Wedding Invitations to Impress


Once you have named the day and decided who you are going to invite to your wedding, it's time to have a look at your budget and see what you can afford to spend on the wedding invitations.

There are so many bridal invitations to choose from. How is it possible to find the most appropriate one for you and your groom? Well, you can start by selecting a design within the color scheme or theme which you already have planned for your wedding. For example, if you have chosen lilac and white and you like fairies then this could be the design of your custom invitations.

The time of year can also influence the style of your wedding invitations. For instance, if you are getting married at Christmas time, they could reflect a snowy scene, or if you choose to wed on Valentines Day, then hearts, bows and roses could be your theme of romance.

Wedding invitations stationery comes in many types of paper, ranging from the shiny glassine, to the layered jacquard. However some couples prefer a matte or a foil finish.

Many wedding invitations are designed using beautiful fonts which are raised or printed in a skillful way. These different print styles enable you to personalize the invitations right down to the last detail in embossed, engraved or calligraphy style print.

When it comes down to wording for invitations, deciding exactly what to put can be both confusing and frustrating. Which words should you use to tell everyone about your special day in a stunning and memorable way? Generally speaking, the way in which you choose the right words will depend on where you are getting your invitations from.

There are several on line sites or high street stationers who offer you everything you could possibly wish for in a wedding invitation. Most of them have catalogs of hundreds of designs for you to choose from. You can either use one of their template designs or give them details of your own design. Whoever you choose to purchase your wedding invitations from will offer you help in choosing the right words to invite your guests to your wedding. The invitations will then be proofed for your approval and delivered to you door in good time for the occasion.

Of course, the invitations should include the names of the bride and groom and the date and venue of the happy occasion. Anything more than this is purely at your own discretion.

You may, however, decide that you would like to have a go at making your own wedding invitations and this could be helpful in saving a little money if you are working to a tight budget. If you have a computer, you can buy stationery and print your own invitations and the store will also sell matching envelopes. You can download all manner of images onto the card or even design the invitations with a photograph of you and your groom. The item can be finished off by hole punching and placing pretty ribbons, tied in bows through the holes.

If you are creative and have quite a bit of free time on your hands, you could have a go at making your unique invitations by hand. There are loads of interesting materials available and you will be able to design something totally unique from anything ever seen before.

When the wedding invitations are prepared, which ever way you choose to go about them, the most important thing is that they are proof read to ensure they say exactly what you want them to say. Let's face it, the information the guests receive has to be spot on in order to make your wedding day a perfect occasion and one to be remembered by all for a long time in the future.

Photo Wedding Invitations and the Significance of Digital Photography


A wedding is a significant event in everyone's life. Especially the photo wedding invitations since they will act as a long lasting reminder of your wedding day. These can easily be framed and put into albums as mementos. So how does digital photography come into the picture? Well most of the photograph invitations you see today are taken through digital cameras.

Digital cameras or photography makes the task of the wedding photographer easier. These cameras can easily store images in a disc and then can be downloaded onto the computer. Once the photos are downloaded the photographer can easily choose the photo you want to be put on your picture wedding invitations. Moreover you can easily scan them and have them altered according to your choice.

A digital camera offers immediate feedback to the photographer. Just by looking at the pictures, the photographer can decide how to correct any risky or difficult shots without destroying the entire picture. The greatest advantage of this is that it enables the wedding photographer to take as many shots as possible. This again depends on how much the memory card can store. Based on this, you can easily choose the best photos for your photo wedding invitations.

The quality of the photos for your wedding invitations with photo highly depends on the skill and experience of the photographer. In addition to this, the photographer can easily see the images clicked by him immediately and take other shots if he finds fault in the previous ones. Poor quality pictures can easily be erased by the click of one button. In addition to this, the photographers can even take pictures of the couple in different poses and styles without removing the film from the camera.

Another biggest advantage of using digital cameras for your photograph wedding invitations is that you can easily see and share images with your friends and families. Some couples like to take the suggestions of their friends and families before taking the final prints of their wedding invitations. People who might not be able to attend the wedding, can also get to meet the bride or the groom by looking at the pictures sent to them.

Some of the photographers would like to edit of make changes to the existing photos like giving it some special effects for the wedding invitations. This requires special software that allows the photographer to create special effects or add finishing touches to the photos. You might even like to add a background, lighting effects to make the wedding invites look more attractive to the guests.

Different styles and borders can be added to the wedding invitations with photos based on your specification and requirements. Many of the couples would like their photos to be taken in black and white in order to create a traditional look for their wedding. This too can be easily done with the help of a digital camera. Of course you might need to hire a professional for the job.

These are all the various advantages of digital photography. Photo wedding invitations are more economical than traditional invitations. A digital camera allows for good picture quality that can easily be altered and changed according to the preferences of the customers. Always do a thorough research before hiring a professional photographer for the job. Look into the work samples and then make the final decision.

Ideas for the Perfect Winter Wedding


It's the most wonderful time of the year... to get married! Wintertime, the holidays and Christmas all evoke images of crystal lace-like snowflakes, soft white snow and colors of cool blues or soft velvety reds and greens. What a perfect time for a wedding! Nature provides evergreens, frost, icicles and cool crisp evenings perfect for cozy indoor get-togethers. Imagine a candlelight evening to set off the sequins in your gown or a reception hall lit only by strings of white lights entwined with greenery tied with big red bows. Or glittery lacy snow flakes hanging from the ceiling of the dance floor. Whatever your idea of a winter wonderland, a wedding in the winter holds many exquisite opportunities for decor. And winter wedding accessories also offer many gorgeous options.

Some winter weddings have enjoyed nature's own spectacular show by holding their ceremony out of doors! The wedding party can stay warm as well as fashionable with fur (of faux fur) wraps, stoles, muffs, hats and coats. Marabou or fur trimmed dresses set off the pristine gifts of the season. Keep your guests warm with some warm spiced cider or hot chocolate. After the ceremony, you can all go back inside to warm up in the candlelight.

A horse-drawn sleigh can carry you to the ceremony or reception site, regardless of whether you have it in or out of doors. Or the carriage sleigh can carry you off as newly weds from the reception! A "getaway" sleigh in lieu of a car could be as enchanting as a fairy tale! You may even be able to use a winter wedding window cling on the sleigh (with the owner's permission of course) with "Just Married" printed on it in addition to your names and even the date! Even without the sleigh, this unique addition makes any vehicle into a magical "carriage" to take you away as newlyweds!

Your winter wedding ceremony and reception can be enhanced with a winter themed collection of a guest book and pen, toasting flutes and matching cake serving set. Adorned with the most darling snowflakes and ice blue colors, it will make you feel like an ice princess on your wedding day!

Make your royal entrance down the aisle with a lovely winter themed personalized aisle runner printed with your names and wedding date, in your choice of blueberry blue or ice blue. Celebrate the moment when two become one with a winter themed personalized unity candle that includes the same matching snowflake decor.

Warm up with some dancing over your personalized winter themed dance floor decals that also match your snowflake cool blue theme. Safe to stick to any non-porous surface, these wedding reception "must haves" are easy to apply and remove. They show up perfectly in the photos of your first dance as a married couple, the father daughter dance, and the bouquet and garter toss. They also make a great center for the obligatory "chicken dance"!

Your wedding cake can even be part of the themed winter charm with a personalized cake topper that includes the festive snowflake theme as well as your names and wedding date. Set it atop a matching winter themed table runner that also announces your names and you have a sweet place for cutting the cake and making your first toast. What a stellar backdrop for your wedding photos.

Don't forget the photo booth! Offer the hottest trend in weddings in the last few years at your wedding reception and see the hilarious results! To make it even more special, you can even place a photo booth backdrop complete in the same theme as the aisle runner, cake topper, dance floor decal, and table runner. And yes, it's personalized so every photo that comes out of it shows your names and wedding day so everyone will remember!>

And the personalized winter wedding themed items don't stop there. Banners are available with the same choices that are perfect to hang on doors or to be used for just about anything!

Don't forget the wedding favors! Snowflake, winter, and holiday themed wedding favors are plentiful. Everything from edible favors such as packets of cider and hot chocolate, candy, muffin mix, and even maple syrup give you a sweet way to say thanks to your guests. Or winter themed votive candles, trinket boxes and book marks make both a kind gesture and stylish statement at your place settings.

Why wait for spring to have your wedding? You don't have to be a June bride! If you enjoy the splendor that the winter season has to offer, enjoy the best of it when you plan a winter themed wedding!

Funny Best Man Quotes


Most Best Man speeches at weddings are made memorable by the addition of a witty quote or two. Add some lively spirit to your Best Man's speech with a funny quote. Choose from the following ten favorite funny quotes and alter them to fit your own situation or that of the newly married couple.

1. Laugh and the world laughs with you. Snore and you sleep alone. - Anthony Burgess

2. Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you said; after marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish saying it. - Helen Roland

3. In olden times, sacrifices were made at the altar, a practice which is still very much practiced. - Helen Rowland

4. It's not as great a day for the bride as she thinks. She's not marrying the best man.

5. Love makes the time pass. Time makes love pass. - French Proverb

6. Marrying a man is like buying something you've been admiring for a long time in a shop window. You may love it when you get it home, but it doesn't always go with everything in the house. - Jean Kerr

7. The problem with being best man at a wedding is that you never get a chance to prove it.

8. Many a man in love with a dimple makes the mistake of marrying the whole girl. - Stephen Leacock

9. Harpo, she's a lovely person. She deserves a good husband. Marry her before she finds one. - Oscar Levant, to Harpo Marx upon meeting Harpo's fiancée

10. I belong to Bridegrooms Anonymous. Whenever I feel like getting married, they send over a lady in a housecoat and hair curlers to burn my toast for me. - Dick Martin

Feel free to modify the last one to your liking and take care to use it as a joke on yourself, and not anyone else!

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Shopping in Guildford, England


The increasing dominance of the UK High Street by multiple chains takes some of the fun out of being in a different town. I can go to Waterstones or La Senza or Monsoon pretty much anywhere - what's the difference whether I do it in Norwich, London, York or Bath?

Fortunately some towns still have a thriving clutch of local retailers - old family firms, small boutiques, and specialised businesses. Guildford's High Street might have a mix that's rather biased towards well-known brands, but as soon as you take the little alleys and smaller streets that run off it, you'll find an eclectic mix of shopping.

Guildford even has not one, but two hat shops. Go through the arched gate of the Angel Hotel and you find a long, thin courtyard, with The Hat Box. It really is a box, just one tiny room absolutely crammed full of hats and headpieces. There are tweed and velvet hats, purple and red felt hats, fascinators and flat caps, berets and beanies - lots of hats for every day, as well as the usual wedding and Ascot hats.

Shoot off in the other direction down Castle Street and you'll find the Mad Hatter, where alongside the ready-to-wear and designer hats you can commission your own bespoke headgear from Chapeaux Kiki. There are pashminas and gloves too and glorious Italian umbrellas with double skins, so that a staid black umbrella might open out to display a glorious shocking red under-side.

If you have a sweet tooth, head down Chapel Street to find Sweets, a traditional confectioners - the type with huge jars of toffee bonbons, chocolate eclairs, nut brittle, gobstoppers and coconut teacakes in the window. If real retro sweeties to reclaim your lost childhood aren't quite your thing, the shop also stocks Belgian chocolates for grown-ups.

Lost childhoods can also be reclaimed at The Bear Garden in Jeffries Passage, which sells Steiff and Merrythought teddy bears. You might not think it matters what kind of bear you get, but spend a little time with the bears and you'll see there's a huge amount of difference between an active, beady-eyed Steiff and a furry, bemused-looking Canterbury Bear. There are even artist bears - Barbara-Ann bears in bright hippy colours, for instance - and animals from tabby cats to crocodiles, monkeys and bumblebees. You can even get a polar bear for your children to ride - miles cuddlier than a rocking horse!

Back to practicalities. Tunsgate, through the great neo-classical gateway of the old Corn Exchange, offers a mixture of shops including electronics, cameras, and The Knob Connection, where you can find door, window and cabinet knobs, hinges, door knockers, handles and letter boxes. If like me you've ended up with a lot of rather boring Ikea furniture, you can jazz it up with some new handles.

Tunsgate does have a few less down to earth shops, as well; Cry for the Moon sells antique and second hand jewellery, and is a compulsory window-stopping shop for anyone who loves jewels, with a window display full of fine Victorian and Edwardian pieces. You may hear the tap-tap-tap of a planishing hammer, too, since the shop has a workshop on the premises and takes commissions as well as doing repairs.

If you still haven't found quite what you wanted, you might like to know that Guildford has three separate branches of Oxfam!

Or on Fridays and Saturdays, you can visit the market in North Street, with a wide range of stalls. There's pet food, jewellery, clothes, a fishmonger and a butcher, deli stalls, cut flowers, and freshly ground coffee - and there is an utterly sinful cupcake stall, from which I bought a wonderful sponge cake with dried fruit and pistachios. I was amused to find in an eighteenth century map in the museum that North Street was originally called 'Upper Backside' - being the northern 'back side' of the High Street. Besides this thriving market, there's a farmer's market in the High Street on the first Tuesday of every month, with over 50 farmers and local producers.

Definitely a shopping experience with a bit of a difference - and the lovely thing about Guildford is that you can combine this with a stroll down the cobbled High Street, admiring the architecture, or a trip up to the castle keep to look down across Guildford to the North Downs, a truly amazing view considering the very little effort required to get there. I can't think of many better ways to while away a Saturday morning - perhaps with the promise of afternoon tea afterwards at the nearby Relish restaurant.

Avatar Namaste - The Eyes Have It


I absolutely love animation! I recently dragged my husband to see the mega hit movie, Avatar. OK, I really didn't drag him, he was a tiny bit curious. As I said, I am a huge fan of all things animated - but he is not. To his credit, he kindly (and dutifully) accompanied me to the jam-packed movie house. His sense of duty was quickly replaced by rising interest as the story unfolded and the amazing technology of half real - half animation was revealed. By the end of the movie, he was cheering with me.

We were captivated by the clear message of care, honor, and respect for our planet and all sentient beings, along with the outrageously fantastic visual effects.

One element that profoundly struck me was the greeting given by the Na'vi people, "I see you." This greeting implies a connection beyond seeing what is obvious to the eyes. Much like the Sanskrit greeting, "Namaste", which means "I bow reverentially to you. I honor the Spirit within you", the greeting "I see you" is used through out the movie to convey deep respect for the whole being. Jake, our hero, learns to truly see Neytiri, the blue-skinned native woman who becomes his mentor and ultimately his partner. And he learns that this deep seeing leads to understanding and revering the interconnectedness of all life.

In the course of your busy day, do you really see others? Do you look into the eyes of those around you and see the sacred brightly shining back?

This is precisely what is explored in the sacred space of spiritual counseling. In spiritual counseling, we listen with more than our ears. And we see with more than our eyes. We listen with our hearts for the whole being. We offer the opportunity to be witnessed, to truly be seen and be heard.

The eyes are the window of the soul. I see you.

The Pros and Cons of Sending Save the Date Cards


One of the biggest wedding trends now is for couples to send save the date cards to their wedding guests. These cards are essentially very early, informal wedding invitations. There are many benefits to sending these cards, but they are certainly not necessary and can sometimes even be a burden to the engaged couple. If you are considering sending these cards to your guests, you should consider the positives and negatives that come along with this popular wedding trend.

There are several great things that you are able to do when you send save the date cards for your wedding. Most obviously, sending save the dates allows your guests to have plenty of time to plan for your wedding. Many couples find that a larger percentage of their invited guests are able to attend the wedding when they receive a card. Make sure your cards have information about both the date of your wedding and the place. This will let your guests make travel arrangements and ask off from work if necessary.

Save the date cards also have a couple hidden benefits. They let you show your creativity and personality as a couple much more than your wedding invitations do. Since save the date cards are typically informal, you can include cute pictures of yourselves or use creative wording. The save the date cards are also a perfect way to let your guests know about your wedding website. Traditionally you should not include a website address on your invitations, so these little cards let you share this information with class. When your guests know your wedding website address, they are able to go to it to learn more about your event details, your personalities, and even information about your registry.

While this trend seems to be a great option, you should also know that there are some drawbacks to sending save the date cards. Most importantly, every single person who receives a save the date card must be invited to your wedding event. If you do not have your guest list finalized yet, sending save the dates could be disastrous. Many couples find themselves needing to cut back on the original guest list to make up for any unforeseen costs associated with hosting a wedding. If you are set on sending save the date cards, you may want to consider only sending them to family and friends that you are certain will be invited to the wedding no matter what.

Additionally, save the date cards are an added cost to your wedding budget. If you are having a destination wedding or your special day is on or near a major holiday, you probably want to make room for these cards in your budget Otherwise, know that though save the date cards are popular they are not necessary. Save your money to send nice invitations if you are pressed with your budget.

Save the date cards are popular because they do come along with some great benefits. Make sure you decide that sending them is best for you, though, instead of just following the crowd. If you do not have the time or the money to send these great little cards, you can spread the news of your wedding day the old-fashioned way - by word of mouth.

Wedding Invitation Wording Examples For Every Scenario


Gone are the days when wedding etiquette mandated that the bride's parents, and the bride's parent's only, hosted the wedding. Today anyone can foot the bill, and with modern familial arrangements often anything but nuclear, there is no straightforward rule for wording invitations. Below is wording samples for some of the most common arrangements.

Bride's Parents Host - traditional

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe Smith
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Jane Marie
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Bride's Parents Host - variation mentioning groom's parents

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe Smith
invite you to share in the joy
of the marriage uniting their daughter
Jane Marie
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Son of Mr. and Mrs. Joe P. Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Bride's Parent Deceased, Remaining Parent Hosts

Mr. John Doe Smith
requests the honour of your presence
at the marriage of his daughter
Jane Marie
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Bride's Parent Deceased, Remaining Parent Hosts with New Spouse

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe Smith
requests the honor of your presence
at the marriage of Mr. John Smith's daughter
Jane Marie
to
Mr. Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Both parents and Bride/Groom Host

Miss Jane Marie Smith
and
Mr. Thomas Allan Johnson
together with their parents
request the favor of your presence
at their marriage
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Bride and Groom Host

The honor of your presence
is requested at the marriage of
Miss Jane Marie Smith,
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Doe Smith
and
Thomas Allan Johnson
son of Mr. and Mrs. Joe P. Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Joint Hosts - Multiple Friends and Families

Please join family and friends
in celebrating the Marriage of
Jane Marie Smith and Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Reception to follow at
the home of Dave and Carol Murphy
543 Main Street

Divorced Parents are Jointly Hosting

Mrs. Mary Peterson
and
Mr. John Doe Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Jane Marie Smith
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Bride's Remarried Parent & New Spouse Hosts

Mary and Bill Peterson
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of her daughter
Jane Marie Smith
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Bride's Divorced Parent Hosts Alone

Mrs. Mary Peterson
requests the honor of your presence
at the marriage of her daughter
Jane Marie Smith
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Both Parents Deceased, Invitations Issued by an Elder Brother

Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan H. Smith
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage his sister
Jane Marie
to
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Both Sets of Parents Host

Mr. and Mrs. John Doe Smith
and Mr. and Mrs. Joe P. Johnson
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their children
Jane Marie Smith
and
Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
Two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Groom's Parents Host

Mr. and Mrs. Joe P. Johnson
request the honour of your presence
at the marriage of
Miss Jane Marie Smith
to their son
Mr. Thomas Allan Johnson
Saturday, the sixteenth of July
two thousand and eight
at six o'clock in the evening
Peachtree Presbyterian Church
3434 Roswell Road
Atlanta, Georgia

Have a circumstance not addressed here? Visit the complete list of wedding invitation wording examples here.

Complete Details for Wedding Gown Cleaning and Preservation


Complete Facts on Wedding Gown Cleaning and Preservation

Getting your wedding gown cleaned and preserved as soon after your wedding as possible helps to give you the very best possible results. You can still have your gown cleaned and preserved years later, but the delay can cause problems. Which of the three wedding gown preservation methods is best?

There are many wedding gown preservation companies that all claim their particular method is best. It doesn't need to be confusing when you have the facts. This special report is designed to educate you, so that you can understand for yourself the three methods with their various pros and cons.

When you've competed this report you'll have the facts you need to decide which method you want to use for your wedding gown preservation.

What you'll find inside this Wedding Gown Preservation Report:

Chapter 1
The 5 Top Reasons to Have Your Wedding Gown Cleaned and Preserved:
-Remember your special day
-Celebrate an anniversary
-For use by a family member
-For a christening dress
-For a bassinette cover

Chapter 2
How should your wedding gown be cleaned:
-Dry-cleaning
-Wet-cleaning

Chapter 3
The three types of wedding gown preservation:
-Boxed method
-Sealed Boxed method
-Bagging method

Chapter 4
Debunking the myths, misinformation and out right lies:
-Boxed vs. Bagging
-"Museum" storage
-Cloth bag storage
-Boxed storage
-Sealed boxed storage
-Examining the dress
-Mold and mildew growth
-Insect infestation
-Allowing the fabric to breathe

Chapter 5
The goals of wedding gown preservation:
-Yellowing
-Permanent creases
-Brown spots and oxidation

Chapter 6
Upgrade offers:
-What's included in an upgrade
-What's the value of an upgrade
-Why is an upgrade offered

Chapter 7
Wedding gown cleaning and preservation summary.

Chapter 1

5 Top Reasons to Have Your Wedding Gown Clean and Preserved.

1. The first and foremost reason is obviously because it is your wedding gown. It is the most expensive dress you'll ever own and it's part of the celebration of the most important day of your life. It is the dress in all of your wedding pictures. It is one of the things you'll remember most about your wedding.

Sure you have your pictures, but to actually be able to see your actual wedding dress beautifully preserved will always bring back a flood of wonderful memories.

2. You may want to wear it to celebrate your 5th, or 10th or 25th wedding anniversary. You could put it on a mannequin and display it for an anniversary celebration.

3. Wedding gown preservation keeps your dress in perfect condition so your sister or your own daughter or even granddaughter can wear it on their wedding day. (It happens more often then you may think and is a wonderful opportunity for you and the lucky girl who wears it.)

4. Many brides are making a christening dress from their wedding gown. Being able to make your wedding gown into a dress that your precious daughter will wear on this important day is something to look forward to. It can start a great family tradition and heirloom.

5. Something that is beginning to take off in popularity is making a bassinette cover made out of it. This can easily be done and provides a wonderful reminder of your special day and the special little one inside the bassinette.

No matter the reason, wedding gown preservation is important. You may not think so now, but years from now you don't want to regret that you missed the opportunity. There will be a time when you'll want your wedding gown in beautiful condition again.

After the wedding many brides just leave their dress in the plastic garment bag thinking they'll get it preserved "sometime". There is always good intentions, but that "sometime" turns into weeks or even years. By procrastinating you may be in for some serious risks to your gown.

You know your wedding gown has some stains on it. There is the dirt, grass stains, and sometimes asphalt parking lot oil on the hem of your dress. Then there is the underarm deodorant, the perspiration, the body oils, the make-up, the spray tan that gets on the dress. There may even be a wine spill or two.

There can also be stains that are not easily visible, like soda, champagne, or cake frosting. Stains caused by any liquid will oxidize over time and turn brown. The longer any stain sets, or oxidizes the more difficult it is to remove. It's important to have your wedding gown cleaned and preserved to prevent this from happening.

Keeping your gown in a plastic bag is probably the worst storage situation possible. Plastic is made from petroleum and gives off fumes. These chemical fumes causes yellowing in your dress. That's also why you should never take your dress to a dry-cleaner and leave it in the plastic bag it comes home in.

Hanging your dress can cause additional problems. Your wedding gown is very heavy and hanging it will stretch the fabric and the seams. If your dress has sleeves then the weight of the dress will stretch the seams in the sleeve. If it's strapless or you hang your dress by the side-seam hanging loops the manufacturer provides you'll stretch the fabric and the side-seams. And for those dresses with a long heavy train the same can be true of the hanging loop for the train.

Wedding gown preservation done right can protect your treasured keepsake.

Chapter 2

How should your wedding gown be cleaned?

There are two types of cleaning methods: dry-cleaning and wet-cleaning.

Dry-cleaning really isn't dry at all. Dry-cleaning refers to not using water for cleaning. It is cleaning with a petroleum solvent as the cleaning agent. The most common agent for dry-cleaning is perchloroethylene - "perc" for short. It is an excellent degreaser and can be used on all fabrics including silk, acetate, rayon and polyester. It can cause damage to some sequins and beads. It can melt the coating on some beads and melt the glue if the beads and sequins are glued onto the fabric.

Stoddard solvent is not as popular because it is more expensive and it has more regulations for it's use - like it cannot be used in a facility in a strip mall. It is an excellent degreaser but has the added advantage that it will not harm beads or sequins.

Exxon DF-2000 is also a petroleum based solvent. It will not harm beads or sequins, but is not as good of a degreaser as Stoddard solvent. It does have fewer regulations so it is more popular for some dry-cleaning establishments.

Cleaning should be done with what is called "Virgin Solvent". Virgin solvent is solvent that has been specially cleaned and filtered before each use. Many dry-cleaners use the same solvent over and over which means the solvent can retain residual oils and "dirt" which can be re-deposited on your dress. Dirty solvent will also leave a "dry-clean" smell on your dress.

Wet-cleaning, using water to clean your dress has several advantages. Water is best for removing any type of sugar stain, food stain or plain dirt on the hem. It is a poor degreaser, (but petroleum solvents cannot remove sugar or food stains.) Wet-cleaning also removes the sizing in fabrics (sizing is a starch like substance that is used to give "body" to the fabric by the manufacturer). Sizing in fabrics attract mice and insects. Proper wet-cleaning will not leave any odor in your gown.

The care label inside your wedding gown should indicate which method is recommended by the manufacturer.

Experience is the most important criteria to consider in selecting who should do your wedding gown cleaning and preservation. Asking questions is the most effective method to determine their experience. How long have they been in business? Do they specialize in wedding gowns, or only clean them once in awhile? Do they examine each dress individually or just place it in with all of their regular cleaning?

Chapter 3

The 3 Types of Wedding Gown Preservation

The three types of wedding gown preservation are:
1. Plain Boxed method
2. Sealed Box method
3. Bagging method. Let's examine each.

The Plain Boxed method. Your wedding gown is cleaned first and then is placed on a cardboard bust form. The bust form and dress are secured in the box. If the bust form was not secured properly in the box, the dress would slide and end up in a messy heap in the bottom of the box. The dress is folded and layered with tissue paper. The box may or may not have a windowed display area. The box is closed and sent to you.

Sealed Boxed method. This method is the same as the Plain Boxed method except it goes a step further in your wedding gown preservation protection. The box is sealed completely. It is sealed to keep out moisture and to keep out insects.

Bagging method. Again the gown is cleaned first and then it is hung usually on a padded hanger and then placed in some kind of cloth bag.

Chapter 4

Debunking the myths, lies and misinformation.

Let's discuss these methods and debunk some of the misinformation, misunderstanding and out right lies being published on the internet about wedding gown preservation methods.

First, understand that the companies who use each of these methods try and get you to believe that their method is best. But let's look at the logical and scientific facts.

Boxed vs. Bagging. The Boxed methods provide a convenient sized preservation box that can easily be stored under a bed or in the bottom of a closet. Bagging, depending on the size of your wedding gown can be very bulky and take up a considerable amount of closet space, especially if your gown was fuller or had a train. Consider where you would store your preserved wedding gown and how much storage space you have.

The Bagging method is also referred to as "Museum" storage or "Museum Quality" storage. The pitch behind this is that museums store their dresses in bags and not boxes. That is partially true. Even their own information explains that these museums also store dresses folded in drawers.

Museums do store most of their dresses in bags. Most of their dresses are thin A-lines and regular women's wear dresses throughout the ages. These can easily be hung, take up very little "closet" space and will only need light touch-up and preparation for display.

It is different with bulky dresses, dresses with trains and wedding dresses. As mentioned before, if they are bagged and hung they take up a considerable amount of closet space. Also if they are hung the weight of the dress can cause the fabric the stretch. Have you felt the weight of some of the wedding dresses?

The dress manufacturer sews a ribbon loop into the seam of the dress and recommends hanging it from those loops. Yes, the loops can be reinforced but still the entire weight of the dress is suspended from the seams and it will cause the fabric to stretch. If the dress is a light weight "destination style" dress then this won't matter.

If the dress has sleeves and it is hung from the sleeves the stretching can be worse. The shape of the sleeve can be deformed. The hanger can leave permanent marks in the top of the sleeves.
Other advantages this method purports to have is inspection of the dress and no folding of the fabric. When the wedding gown preservation is done with the Bagging method you can open the bag and easily examine the dress. If the dress is short with no train, then it shouldn't have any folds. If it has a train then the train will be hung by a ribbon loop in its seam and will be folded about half way up the train, this will cause a double fold back for the last 12"-24" of the train, from the hanging loop to the hem of the train. Remember how the train on your wedding dress was hung in the bag when you took it to your wedding. It will be hung the same way for this method. So dresses with trains will always have at least two folds in them using the Bagging method. (If they really don't hang the train by the hanging loops then the entire train will be a wrinkled mess piled in the bottom of the bag - there is no place else for it to go).

Lastly, the cloth storage bag that is used in the Bagging method should be addressed. There are two areas of concern in regards to insect infestation when using a cloth bag for storage. Insects can get into the tiniest places and through the smallest cracks and openings. We have all experienced spiders, earwigs, pill bugs and other insects in some pretty unusual locations. The closure area, in many bags it's a zipper in the Bagging method it is usually tied shut. This can provide an opportunity of insects entering at the ties or in between them. Second is the hole in the top of the bag where the hanger goes through. Insects can enter at this opening and get in a ruin your dress.

Cloth bags do let air pass through but that also means moisture can also pass through to the dress. As the humidity rises there's more moisture in the air and therefore in the fabric of your dress. It really doesn't mater much unless the humidity gets too high and that can promote mildew growth on the fabric.

Something else that can happen with the cloth bags. Cats, dogs and mice especially like to "mark" their territory. It has happened where an animal has urinated on the bag to mark their territory. Obviously it can soak through the cloth bag and onto the wedding dress. The dress would then have to be re-cleaned.

OK, now lets discuss the Boxed method. Two types of boxes can be used, one with a windowed display area in the top and the other just plain cardboard box. This is really a personal preference for each individual to decide.

With this method of wedding gown preservation the dress is cleaned first. It is then steamed and pressed. Then it is placed on a shaped bust form to fill out the top of the dress and makes it display better. The bust form is attached to the box so that the dress doesn't slide around in the box and end up in a heap at the bottom of the box.

As the dress is placed in the box it is folded and layered with acid free tissue paper. This layering is to protect and soften the folds. If it is a plain cardboard box then a final layer of tissue paper is placed on top of the dress. If the box is a windowed display box then this layer is not used so you can see your dress through the display window.

The box can then be stored under a bed or in the bottom of a closet.

The Sealed Box method goes through the same process with the added step of sealing the entire box.

What are the advantages and disadvantages to each. The Boxed method says you can open the box see the dress to make sure it's yours and to examine it. If it's a windowed display box, you don't need to open it to make sure it's your dress - you can see it through the window.

However, there are problems if you think you can just open the box and examine the dress. First, you should never touch a cleaned and preserved wedding gown unless you have white cloth gloves on. You may or may not have clean hands, but your hands will have body oils on them and so you need gloves.

If you have white cloth gloves then when you open the box you'll discover the bust form is attached to the box, so you'll need to unattached it. Next you'll need to unfold the dress, layer by layer to examine the train which will be the bottom layer in the box. Once you are satisfied you'll need to refold the dress as it was before and reattach the bust form. This sounds considerably easier than it is.
If you actually take the dress out of the box, you'll find it even more difficult getting everything back in the box properly.

Something else to absolutely make sure of before you open the box and try to examine your dress is the wedding gown preservation company's guarantee. It may or may not say you can open the box and examine your dress. It may say you can open the box to examine your dress but doesn't specifically say whether you can take the dress out of the box. If it isn't specific then you should ask specific questions to make sure of what you can or can't do that would void their guarantee.

Wedding gown preservation companies must protect themselves from the situation where a bride can take her dress out of the box, wear it, get something on it, put it back in the box and claim that the stain or dirt or whatever was never gotten out in the original cleaning and preservation process and demand it be reprocessed for free.

Don't assume that just because the box is not sealed that you can open it, examine the dress and or take it out and not void the guarantee... you need to check first.

Boxes that are not sealed are susceptible to insect infestation. Insects love to get into small thin opening and into the fabric to build their nests. Just because the box is closed doesn't mean insects can't get in.

The same warning applies to Boxes as to the Bags when it comes to animals marking their territory. Cardboard protects better than a cloth bag but still can be ruined by an animal urinating on it.
Moisture and humidity can also vary in an unsealed box - same warnings apply.

What about the Sealed Box method then? It provides all of the benefits of the Boxed method with much more protection. You don't have to worry about animals or insects.

What about examining the dress and the question of moisture and mildew in a sealed box? A number of the wedding gown preservation companies site these two reasons as a warning to not use the Sealed Box method.

Let's address them one at a time.

Here's the actual science on mold and mildew growth from a publication by the University of Florida Institute of Food and Agricultural Science. Optimal conditions for mildew to grow is 70%-98% relative humidity and 77-88 degrees Fahrenheit. When relative humidity is less than 62% mildew growth ceases completely.

So if your wedding gown is either boxed or bagged but not sealed you run the risk of mildew if you have high humidity and warm temperatures. If you live in an area of the country where the humidity level can be higher than 70% your unsealed exposed wedding gown can run the risk of mildew growing on it. You could also run the same risk of mildew if your box is sealed and you have sealed in that high moisture content in the box and dress.

So for optimal wedding gown preservation you want to have the Sealed Boxed method with little or no moisture sealed in the box. That would mean you need to make sure that your wedding gown preservation company dries your dress and controls the humidity prior to sealing the box.

Another objection some companies have about the Sealed Boxed method is that the fabric should be allowed to breathe. That's almost comical when you think about it. Fabric doesn't have any lungs - it doesn't and in fact shouldn't breathe. Having the fabric breathe means that air is allowed to flow through the fabric.

The problem with air flowing through the fabric is that the air carries dust, dirt, pollen, mold pores and bacteria. The fabric acts as a natural filter. So if the air is allowed to circulate through the dress then more and more of the contaminants can build up on the fabric. A sealed box does not allow the air to circulate and eliminates this problem. So what some companies pitch as a determent actually turns out in reality to be a benefit for sealing the box.

When it comes to wedding gown inspection with the Sealed Boxed method you simply can't thoroughly examine the dress. You will want to choose a company that has a windowed display box so can see and verify it's your gown. You will void their guarantee if you open the box to take your dress out and examine it.

That means you will have to "trust" the wedding gown preservation company that you use to do the cleaning and preservation right.

Check out the company. What type of reputation do they have? Read their testimonials. Are they members of the Better Business Bureau and with what kind of rating. How long have they been in business? Do they specialize in just wedding gowns, or do they do every kind of dry-cleaning? Can you call and get your questions answered personally?

Chapter 5

What do you want your wedding gown preservation to do for you and your dress?

1. You want your wedding gown preservation to prevent your dress from yellowing. Yellowing can be caused by several situations. Don't use a plastic bag for long term storage. Plastic bags give off petroleum distillates that can yellow your dress over time. Storing your dress in a non-acid free environment can also cause yellowing of your dress. This would include a regular cardboard box, or using regular tissue paper instead of acid free tissue.

2. You want your wedding gown preservation to prevent any permanent creases in your dress. Make sure that the company you use properly cares for your dress. If you insist on using the Bagging method they should make provisions for your train especially so it does not double fold back on itself in the bag. If you use the Boxed or Seal Boxed methods they should carefully fold the dress and buffer each fold with acid free tissue paper. This buffering will make the folds gentile and keep them from creasing.

(Be aware that some companies will promote the idea that your wedding gown should be re-folded every few years to prevent permanent creases. Although this sounds good in theory it isn't true at all. First if your gown is stored properly, buffered with acid free tissue paper, the folds will remain folds. Unless there is some force that "squishes" the dress flat, or specifically flattens the folds into creases, creases won't happen. Folds don't "automatically" flatten themselves into creases. The fact actually is - creases can be removed from the fabric by proper steaming and or ironing. Seamstresses do this all of the time. If a seam or hem has to be changed they can easily make the "creases" disappear when they steam and or iron it.)

3. You want your wedding gown preservation to prevent and mold, mildew or insect growth or infestation. This can only be guaranteed when you use the Sealed Boxed method - see that section under "Wedding Gown Preservation methods".

4. You want your wedding gown preservation to prevent brown spots or oxidation spots on your dress. Brown spots usually occur when a stain in the dress was not properly cleaned. The stain will oxidize over time and turn brown. This is especially true for any sugar based stain - ones caused from soda, wine, cake frosting or food.

These stains may not be visible when you send your dress in to be cleaned and preserved. It's important that the company you use not only does a careful visual inspection but also a black-light inspection to reveal any hidden stains. And that the company completely removes all of the stains in your dress.

Chapter 6

Upgrade Offers

Some wedding gown preservation companies offer an upgrade service. The upgrade consists of using muslin in place of acid free tissue paper, additional insurance, and a upgraded storage container. Upgrades can cost anywhere from $40.00 to $100.00 more than their standard offer.

Upgrades are a "rip-off"!

Muslin is a very cheap fabric and offers no added benefit over acid free tissue paper. It sounds great, but it does nothing to make a better storage environment or keep the dress safer or better. Acid free tissue does everything muslin can do - and saves you money.

Most wedding gown preservation companies automatically provide $500.00 of insurance on their cleaning and preservation insurance. The insurance is actually provided for and through U.P.S. (or Fed-Ex). An upgrade increases the insurance to $1,500. You can purchase additional insurance when you ship your dress for $2 per $100 value, so for $10-$20 you can get the maximum insurance.
Remember insurance is provided so that the company providing the insurance can make money. It is a huge profit center for U.P.S. and Fed-Ex. Realize also that insurance companies do not like to pay out on claims and will minimize the payout as much as they can. They will claim your dress is used - (which it is) - that it is in poor condition - (that's why you are having it cleaned) - that it's last seasons or older model dress - (which it is, bridal manufacturer's bring out new dresses twice per year, creating two seasons per year, so your dress is at least 1 to 3 or more seasons old). Get the picture, insurance is for the insurance company. Oh, and as and aside, in 12 years that I personally have dealt with U.P.S. shipping wedding dress for cleaning and preservation they have yet to lose a dress. I guess wedding dress boxes are too big to lose.

The last of the upgrade items is a different storage container. Check and you'll see that the box is exactly the same except it's a different color. The size, shape, it's materials are all the same, the only difference is the outside color of the box.

So is there really any significant value in purchasing an upgrade? Absolutely not. It's just a great ploy by that particular wedding gown preservation company to get you to spend more - thus increasing their profits dramatically.

Chapter 7

Wedding gown cleaning and preservation summary.

Cleaning summary:

Determine the fabric of your wedding gown. If it is polyester then it can usually safely be wet-cleaned. If it is silk, acetate or rayon then you have a few choices. Does it have beading or sequins on the dress? Percloroethylene (perc) is the most common dry-cleaning solvent but can discolor or melt the coating on the beads and sequins and can dissolve the glue if they are glued on. The better alternative is Stoddard Solvent or DF-2000. These dry-cleaning solvents are still excellent degreasers but will not harm the beads and sequins. Stoddard solvent is the best degreaser of the two.

Read the manufacturer's fabric care label to help guide you on your choices.

Select a wedding gown preservation company that uses virgin solvent. You don't want your dress being "cleaned" in dirty solvent that can leave an unpleasant odor in your dress.
Select a company that specializes in wedding gown cleaning and preservation. Choose a company that has been in business for a substantial time, is a member of the Better Business Bureau and has excellent reviews.

It's also best to use a company that carefully hand inspects your dress and then does a further inspection using a black light. The company should do minor repairs at no additional cost to you. They can fix those loose beads, replace a button or fix a small tear in the fabric as part of their service.

Carefully examine the entire wedding gown preservation method. Select a company that will provide you the peace of mind, where you know your treasured keepsake will be put in an acid free environment, will be protected from unwanted creasing, protected from mold, mildew and insects, and provides a lifetime guarantee.

Money Talks: 5 Financial Matters to Discuss Before Marriage


A wedding is a blessed event. Two lives have joined together as one making a commitment to love, honor and cherish each other. They vow to remain committed during sickness and health, whether they are rich or poor. Really? If that is true, why do nearly half of all marriages end in divorce? The number one cause for divorce is financial problems. This is something that could be avoided if the couple took the time to have the money talk before getting married.

Unfortunately, some couples invest more time into planning one day than how they will invest in a financial future together. When couples talk about getting married, the discussion should include each person's current financial situation and attitude towards money. These five financial topics are a starting point for having an open and honest conversation about money.

1. Short-term and Long-term Financial Goals

Starting a family, buying a home, career plans and retirement have financial implications that couples should discuss. Both partners should make a separate list of short-term and long-term goals. Develop a combined list of goals and discuss the financial preparations required for meeting those goals. Joint goals provide a clear picture of what each person expects and hopes to accomplish. Setting a timetable for reaching each goal will help the couple remain on track.

2. Credit Score and Current Debt Load

A poor credit score can delay attaining some financial goals such as qualifying for a mortgage loan. Poor credit could also be a sign that one person has money management problems. Couples should discuss money habits that can hurt a credit score and work together towards changing those habits. Bad credit can improve by making on-time payments. Discussing financial mistakes with a future spouse can be uncomfortable. However, this is essential for establishing a plan to make improvements.

Each person should know the amount of debt the other brings to the marriage. Getting married could mean one spouse will share the responsibility of the debt. A debt load may include credit cards, student loans and other bills that have accumulated. Having a certain amount of debt is not unusual, but devising a plan for paying the debt off is important. Keeping secrets about debt is not helpful.

3. Budget Principles and Paying Bills

Couples should discuss budgeting principles and compare current budget habits. Differences in financial personalities are revealed. Some couples fear that having a disagreement means the wedding is off. It is important to note that differences will not lead to divorce, but rather how those differences are addressed - or avoided.

If one person spends more than the other, the money savvy partner should manage the household budget and balance the checkbook. Regardless, financial decisions should be made together. A couple should determine what works and stick to it.

Getting married does not mean that finances have to be merged completely. There can be a joint account for shared expenses and a separate account for personal purchases in order to maintain some financial independence. The key is to make sure both partners know about the separate accounts.

4. Income

Before getting married, the couple should discuss the annual income of each. An income determines the quality of life, where the couple will live and how much money can be saved for short-term and long-term financial goals. The couple should look at pay stubs and bills to determine how they will support each other. It might be necessary to defer getting married until one or both are financially stable.

5. Financial Security Protection

The financial security discussion includes having an emergency fund, insurance policies, and wills and investments. There could be ways to save as a couple on health insurance if the premium is less for one person while maintaining adequate coverage. The same is true for life insurance polices. If one person dies, life insurance should cover the lost income. Wills and investments should be updated to name the future spouse as an heir.

Marriage is both a romantic and financial union. Sharing finances requires compromise and trust, two things that are necessary for having a healthy marriage. Starting a conversation about money might seem difficult, but it is harder once a problem occurs. A divorce proceeding is not the time to begin talking about money.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

How to Choose the Right Limo Hire Services


Planning a schedule for an important event can be pretty elaborate, but amongst other things, hiring the right limousine services for the occasion is an important part. Everyone desires to celebrate the special moments of life in extravagant ways, which literally means that everything for the occasion should be planned in an elaborate manner with a sophisticated feel. This is why, the demand and supply of limousine hire services is increasing. If you too, have been planning to add the much needed glamour and glitter to some special event in your life, than make sure you are hiring the right car rental services for the occasion.

With numerous companies in the market providing limousine hire services, it can be confusing for anyone to select the apt company. It might be a little difficult but with the right guidance and a little bit of research you can book the appropriate services of a good limo hire company. Choosing right services with the apt vehicle on rent can make your special day memorable. On the other hand, a wrong decision can ruin everything you have planned. Hence, before hiring a Stretch or a Hummer or any other Limousine consider the following points:

What is the occasion: You must rent a vehicle which is appropriate for the occasion. With the limousine service providers you can have several vehicles on rent ranging from sedans to designer buses. If you are hiring wedding limo for wedding purpose, to pick up the bride, you can go for the classic four-seater vehicles. But when you have to pick up several people for the bachelor's party then a mega stretch bachelor limo would be apt for the purpose. In case, you are planning an airport transfer that the more formal sedans can solve the purpose.

Number of people - It is important that you count heads in advance to calculate the exact number of people, who would be using the transport. A predetermined guest-list would help you to select the right automobile fit for your requirements. You can rent a sedan limo accommodating only 4 people or the stretch limousine with a capacity of 7 people on board or the super stretch with a seating capacity of 9 guests. For a guest-list of more that 10 people you can rent the mega stretch limousine conveniently accommodating 11 people on board. The bigger vehicles are the more spacious and convenient ones. Also, the rent of the automobile goes up with its size.

Go to the right company - Due to the increase in the demand and supply of rented limousine services, you can now enjoy a wide variety of options. Make sure that the car rental services you are heading to should be reliable having a good track record of satisfied clients to its credit. Do some research about the company to find out the kind of vehicles they have on offer. Plan a visit to their garage and check out the vehicles available on rent, an ideal company should own the latest collection of limos. After all you are planning for a special event and you definitely don't want to ride in a ten or fifteen year old rusty Cadillac.

Insurance - One of the most important aspects to consider before hiring the services of a limo hire company is to ensure whether or not the service provider is licensed and fully insured. An insured company would cover the vehicle and the passengers as well.

These tips can be followed to hire the services of a truly professional car rental company. Work out your budget, do a little research and then take your decision. ULC Limos is a popular limo hire company based in Los Angeles. It owns a fleet of the latest edition automobiles.

Handmade Wedding Invitations Text - Using Formal Wording For Elegance


Handmade wedding invitations text in itself provides many options for how you can design it for the final result. First things first though, prior to making choices on how your invitations will look, you must pay attention to the wording you will put on the paper. In all reality providing the correct details to your guests is absolutely the most important part of sending wedding invitations out to your guests. Your guests will plan their entire trip around what you provide in your handmade wedding invitations text so you must have the details right for them.

Look through your notes and make sure you are taking the information from here instead of just relying on memory. I'm sure you know when your wedding date is, but it will also put you a little more at ease if you take the time to make an extra phone call to your venue and make sure that your details jive. These details are nothing to take for granted so don't. When you think you have everything right, proofread it again. Now have someone else proofread it for you. The reason for this is that you have a lot on your mind during your wedding planning process so you don't want to confuse yourself.

Now with this out of the way you can start to plan your wording for your handmade wedding invitations text. The way you word your details will be your way of showing your guests what style of wedding day they will be attending. If you choose to make your wedding a formal affair, than you will want to follow a few guidelines to portray this.

Your handmade wedding invitations text font can be the first place you set the tone. A nice script font is always elegant and formal, but don't overlook a bold block lettering. You can add a nice monogram for additional impact as well. All of these will set a unique tone that will show the formality of your wedding. It is also completely acceptable to use more than one font, just make sure they blend well and keep the formal feel.

Your wording will be of major importance and will tell a great deal about the style of wedding you're hosting. A time-honored wording lends to your invitations as well as your envelopes lends a formal appeal. There are many examples of this wording easily accessible by reviewing invitations online.

For formal invitations a tip that will make an immediate impact is to use the British version of the word "honour" when requesting the honour of their presence. Additional guidelines to follow are to use formal names when addressing your guests. This would be the full name of your guest with inclusion of a title such as Mr., Mrs., Ms, and Jr. or Mrs. These should be the only abbreviations you should use throughout your invitations, and you could even word these without abbreviations as well. Do not use nicknames, even for close friends. Also include the middle name for the bride and groom. If you choose to use a monogram this will make even more sense to your guests.

For addresses you will also want to use the full spellings of addresses (First Street), dates (Saturday, the twentieth of February) and years (two thousand ten). Do not use numbers for any dates, times, or addresses if you are choosing to make your handmade wedding invitations text formal (the exceptions would be house numbers, apartment numbers, and zip codes). Spell out any street names including normally abbreviated terms such as Court, Lane, Street, etc... Spell out any times included on your invitations. For example, 6:00 PM would be Six o'clock in the evening. This will help your invitations to be consistently formal throughout. Use line breaks instead of commas.

Carry this formal text format through from your handmade wedding invitations for addressing your envelopes as well, including as mentioned for any addresses by fully spelling out all numbers except the house, apartment, and zip code numbers. As an added formal effect you will want to use your best penmanship on the envelopes if you hand write them. If your handwriting is poor, ask a friend or family member to help you with this, just make sure to take your time and not make it look rushed. Another option is to hire someone that is experienced in formal writing such as calligraphy, but make sure that this writing matches your handmade wedding invitations text style within the invitations itself if you choose this.