Is Marriage Just a Form of Insurance Fraud?

We are told that we need INSURANCE.

Often, INSURANCE is a good idea - especially if you are heavily invested in something like a house or a car or a watch or a bag.

It is wise to be prepared for the worst, although you may hope for the best.

There is one INSURANCE policy that is a SCAM - marriage.

Marriage is not a good INSURANCE policy - it is a SCAM.

- Marriage does not ensure a lifelong love or commitment.
- Marriage does not ensure wise and respectful parental behavior.
- Marriage does not always ensure financial stability for both partners.
- Marriage does not ensure a balanced and loving home for your children.
- Marriage does not ensure your validation in the eyes of society - especially if it ends in divorce.
- Marriage is an INSURANCE SCAM sold by religions, governments and parents...

If you will not breed with him because he won't marry you, don't breed with him just because he will marry you.

If you will not live with him unless he marries you, don't think that marriage will make living with him any better.

If you will not trust her until you are married, do not think that marriage will make things any better for you... or for her.

If you think that marriage will lock him in or lock her down, then you are about to fall for an INSURANCE SCAM.

If there was any love, trust or belief in marriage, there would be no need for marriage in the first place.

- Relationships are hard work. Everyday - marriage does not change that.
- Relationships are riddled with complacency - marriage does not change that.
- Relationships are often endured out of fear - marriage does not change that.
- Relationships often come to an end - marriage does not change that.

If you are considering breeding with your partner, take marriage out of the equation - would you still breed with them? If not, then don't ever think that marriage will change how they will be as a parent... Do not fall for the INSURANCE SCAM of marriage.

If you are considering moving in with your partner, take marriage out of the equation - do you see it working even if you are not married? If not, don't ever think that co-habitation will get easier with marriage... Do not fall for the INSURANCE SCAM of marriage.

If you have any doubts at all about the person you love, if you have trust issues, behavior issues, or even age issues, take marriage out of the equation - don't ever think that marriage will suddenly make them better, don't ever expect them to change because of marriage... Do not fall for the INSURANCE SCAM of marriage.

- Relationships only survive if both parties work constantly to make it successful:

If you work hard at your relationship you do not need marriage...

Marriage does not clear up the problems - it sometimes hides them for a while, but they will re-surface.

- Relationships require communication, trust, love and belief:

If you communicate your love clearly you do not need marriage to prove it...

Marriage is based on doubt, fear and insecurity - if these were not a part of the marriage equation, then you would not need the marriage.

- Relationships are built because each partner is an equal:

If you maintain equality then you retain the respect and individuality that leads to a successful love...

Marriage is based on each person having specific roles.

- Relationships require each partner to maintain their individuality in case the relationship ends:

If you refuse marriage as an option, you allow yourself truth and freedom...

Marriage is based on the illusion that things will never change, and that's why divorce is so prevalent.

- Relationships allow each partner to be financially independent.

If you think marriage will be financially beneficial, think about the cost of a divorce...

Marriage relies on financial dependency that leads to a loss of respect within the marriage and financial meltdown during the divorce.

- When a relationship ends it is up to each partner to survive alone.

If you think a divorce is fair to each partner, realize that the financially dependent one will always be worse off and the financially successful one will always be ticked off...

When a marriage ends, each partner tries to survive by screwing over the other one.

- When a relationship ends, each partner survives by moving on and by relying on no-one but themselves.

If you think marriage provides an INSURANCE policy, you are wrong - relationships force you to be aware, whilst marriage allows you to be off your game until it is all too late...

Do not be suckered into the illusion of the INSURANCE SCAM that prevails in society.

Stand up for yourself. Be confident in yourself. Then, you will have the best relationships.

Be an individual who has a sense of self-achievement and a lifetime of great relationships.

The INSURANCE SCAM of marriage is designed to make you weak, to make lawyers rich, to make governments less accountable and to make life more complicated.

Build your own life with someone without the need for a fear-based institution.

Guy Blews